Not that I've been in a lot of different relationships, but I've dated quite a few girls over the last ten years. For the ones that went beyond a few weeks, the girl usually got very into it and developed strong feelings, but I never did. The idea of relationship has been appealing to me, so I've tried, but I always end up feeling like I'd be happier being single, even when the relationship isn't bad or anything. At best it's like I could take it or leave it.
By now, I've started actively avoiding relationships because so many girls have gotten hurt falling for me only to find out I don't share those intense feelings. I don't want to hurt anyone. And I'm still pretty happy. Life isn't perfect, but life isn't perfect for anyone. I like my job, I have good hobbies and side interests, I do a lot in my spare time, I have good friends, etc, and I'm fine doing things by myself and even prefer it a lot of the time. And I am on good terms with a number of different women both in town and around the region where we are not in a relationship but still have a good time together here and there, and I mean that both as a euphemism and not as a euphemism. It's nice.
Despite all that, I get pressure from a lot of people to find a girl, and a lot of people even assume there's something seriously wrong with me. I have some issues, sure, but I don't really feel like I have major problems. I just enjoy my freedom and am very introverted.
Anyone feel the same? Seems like the only other people I know in a similar boat DO actually have major flaws that keep people away. Any guys out there just prefer being single? Will this change at any point?