Problems with new Girlfriend..

She's still banging him dude

bruhhhhhhhhhhh and you´re okay with that tell her me or him. she might be still smanging him

What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Go to the sophomore prom with one of her teammates.

TroubledGuy wrote:

Is this weird that she is still going to his prom?

YES

When people ask these sorts of things they really already know the answer. If something feels wrong it's because it is wrong. She also knows it's wrong. The fact that she would try to make you think it isn't wrong and would do this anyway makes her a really really shitty person.

The sad thing is the junior, who is younger than you, knew enough to treat this girl as a hook up while you are too naive (or stupid) to see her for what she is.

Go ahead and take her to your prom and do unspeakably dirty things to her that night, then in the morning you need to man up and walk away from that psycho. Ghosting her seems appropriate in the circumstances.

Thanks for the serious responses. I really am having a tough time with this. Also more information: I'll bring it up to her and she said she already said yes to him before they ended things so that's why she's going.

The other boy doesn't care about prom.

He wouldn't care if she backed out and couldn't go.

He's only going to be with her.

She's going o his prom because she likes the attention and girls like proms.

Ultimatum time.

She has to pick one prom.

Wait, your GIRLFRIEND is going to prom with another guy?

Are you sure she's your "girlfriend" and that you're actually a couple?

I'd say this... if I had a girlfriend who even entertained the idea of continuing an arrangement with a past flame (in this case, honoring an invitation to prom) I'd just dump her and walk away immediately. She clearly doesn't respect your feelings and isn't worth your time either.

This relationship is DOA. I agree with the other poster about treating this as just a fwb situation.

TroubledGuy wrote:

Thanks for the serious responses. I really am having a tough time with this. Also more information: I'll bring it up to her and she said she already said yes to him before they ended things so that's why she's going.

Excuses. When you break up with someone you don't go on dates with them anymore, that's the point of breaking up.

One thing's for sure, she's not your girlfriend. She is your prom date, maybe your girlfriend in the future, but acknowledge that she is not your girlfriend presently.

She is "shit testing" you. For the uninformed, this is when women test you to see how much shit you'll put up with. She likely still has feelings for the other dude. Don't give an inch, take control.

She's going to our prom (senior prom) with me and then going to junior prom (his prom) with her old fwb buddy.

TroubledGuy wrote:

She's going to our prom (senior prom) with me and then going to junior prom (his prom) with her current fwb buddy.

Fixed

I'm not sure of the pronouncation but I believe it's ménage a trois.

congrats brah, you have a new Eskimo Brother

Sounds like she has the situation under control. Every one is happy and I'm sure when the other guy becomes a senior he'll have his failure to text solved.

Star wrote:

The other boy doesn't care about prom.

He wouldn't care if she backed out and couldn't go.

He's only going to be with her.

She's going o his prom because she likes the attention and girls like proms.

Ultimatum time.

She has to pick one prom.

No ultimatums. OP needs to talk about his concerns with the girl. That's all.

These are kids. Who cares if she goes to two proms. She can meet the other kid there and leave at the end.

OP, it's not a precious thing. If it's not working because you don't trust her, then end it because it doesn't get better. That's on you and your trust issues. Maybe she has something on the side. It doesn't matter.

Maybe you can be non-exclusive if it suits you? There are no rules and no good reason for monogamy with this much distrust. Take out the exclusivity and both could win.

OP, don't listen to the cuck.

dude, drop this chick faster than the hammer in a half marathon. Anyone who would willingly go to two proms, or even one, has to have some serious mental impairment issues.

Red pill giver wrote:

She is "shit testing" you. For the uninformed, this is when women test you to see how much shit you'll put up with.

+1

Have a threesome.