Divorced -- her decision. While it's true that neither of us liked each other any more, I wanted to try to save it, but she didn't. About 3.5 years later, I remarried a wonderful woman.
I have to periodically interact with my ex at our kid's functions (track meets, piano recitals, etc.). Our encounters leave me profoundly sad for some reason ... I think mainly because of the breakup of the family. And sometimes I wonder if I should not have remarried to keep the possibility alive of reuniting the family.
It's certainly too late for that now. Any decent LRC'ers out there with some words of wisdom? I realize I'll have to wade through the comments of the jerks and trolls, but some of you all are good people with good advice.