What do you look for in a woman you want to be your wife?
I read a lot of the comments in the other thread and posted a couple of times. (Some truths in there!!haha) made me wonder if men look for similar things? Or are you only after girls who drop their... you know. :)
Only serious replies pls
Double D's and a fat @$$!
Typical LRC A-Hole wrote:
Double D's and a fat @$$!
But also a tiny waist. DD's and a donk aren't any good on a 200 lb nelly.
LonelyGal wrote:
What do you look for in a woman you want to be your wife?
I read a lot of the comments in the other thread and posted a couple of times. (Some truths in there!!haha) made me wonder if men look for similar things? Or are you only after girls who drop their... you know. :)
Only serious replies pls
Answer: Think of the opposite of Hillary Clinton. In every way.
I'm serous
john utah wrote:
LonelyGal wrote:What do you look for in a woman you want to be your wife?
I read a lot of the comments in the other thread and posted a couple of times. (Some truths in there!!haha) made me wonder if men look for similar things? Or are you only after girls who drop their... you know. :)
Only serious replies pls
Answer: Think of the opposite of Hillary Clinton. In every way.
I'm serous
So... a man?
r u serious wrote:
john utah wrote:Answer: Think of the opposite of Hillary Clinton. In every way.
I'm serous
So... a man?
No, feminine grace
A pulse.
Seriously: no nagging + unconditional love and encouragement.
That's it! But only if the guy is capable of returning the same.
LonelyGal wrote:
What do you look for in a woman you want to be your wife?
I read a lot of the comments in the other thread and posted a couple of times. (Some truths in there!!haha) made me wonder if men look for similar things? Or are you only after girls who drop their... you know. :)
Only serious replies pls
An MIT study showed that while men only cared about physical attractiveness, women cared about looks, height, race, money, and educational attainment of their man.
I'm unlike most men so I care about:
1. common ground (I love running, Spanish, and my job)
1a. Looks/youth. (still important for me but not like how most men only care about hotness)
3. she has a stable, high-paid job ideally requiring much education. I don't want to lose a lot in a divorce.
A sizable trust fund and the ability to thoughtfully answer stupid questions like where do you see yourself in ten years.
Addicted to kegel exercising.
Men want a woman with a 5k PR under 18:00, or under 20:00 if she's really hot.
LonelyGal wrote: What do you look for in a woman you want to be your wife? Only serious replies pls
My gut tells me that this post is not only a troll attempt, but that it was likely written by a guy. But I'll bite, just on the possibility that it's legit and in an effort to stimulate conversation.
As a frame of reference, I'm a 50-something guy who is now divorced after 15+ years of marriage. I really have no desire to marry again, but I do hope to be in a long-term monogamous relationship again someday. Following are a few of what I believe to be relatively reasonable "requirements" for the woman in my life:
1. She needs to be fit and interested in keeping up her physical appearance. This may seem shallow, but two people must be physically attracted to each other. I realize this goes both ways and I do everything I'm capable of to maintain my appearance. Some women may not like the way I look, and that's fine, but none can say that I don't give it my best effort.
2. She needs to be nice. That may seem pretty general, but it's not a difficult concept to embrace. I don't want to be with anyone who is confrontational, rude, incessantly critical (in a non-constructive way) or two-faced. Just be nice.
3. She needs to be down-to-earth and laid back. I don't want to be with anyone who is concerned with social, professional or financial status...whether that expectation is aimed at me, herself or anyone else. (This quality also includes no drama and no baggage!) If two people can successfully achieve Point #1 above, then the only other things that should matter are whether they are intellectually, emotionally and sexually compatible.
4. She needs to be sexually compatible. Again, some might think that the sexual part of a relationship is superficial, but it is nonetheless important. Bottom line, she needs to have a strong libido and the actual desire to "make love like a p**n star". Doesn't have to rise to the level of kink, but there has to be a lot of passion. And the passion has to be genuine; nothing is a bigger turn-off than to know your partner is performing an act as if he or she is doing you a favor. Without being too graphic, shunning normal sexual acts (such as oral) would be a flat-out deal-breaker.
Have at it...
I'm not really looking. Maybe next time.
I want a girl who can keep her head all night long.
That's pretty good.
The young guys here would never realize it, but if you get to the point in a relationship that you feel absolute contempt for your partner, it will be impossible to be physically attracted to her no matter how good she looks.
LonelyGal wrote:
What do you look for in a woman you want to be your wife?
I read a lot of the comments in the other thread and posted a couple of times. (Some truths in there!!haha) made me wonder if men look for similar things? Or are you only after girls who drop their... you know. :)
Only serious replies pls
8/10. Very good. Most people fell for it.
Can I just say what I don't like? I don't like women who glorify wine so much, you see what it does.
Mr. Gullible wrote:
LonelyGal wrote: What do you look for in a woman you want to be your wife? Only serious replies plsMy gut tells me that this post is not only a troll attempt, but that it was likely written by a guy. But I'll bite, just on the possibility that it's legit and in an effort to stimulate conversation.
As a frame of reference, I'm a 50-something guy who is now divorced after 15+ years of marriage. I really have no desire to marry again, but I do hope to be in a long-term monogamous relationship again someday. Following are a few of what I believe to be relatively reasonable "requirements" for the woman in my life:
1. She needs to be fit and interested in keeping up her physical appearance. This may seem shallow, but two people must be physically attracted to each other. I realize this goes both ways and I do everything I'm capable of to maintain my appearance. Some women may not like the way I look, and that's fine, but none can say that I don't give it my best effort.
2. She needs to be nice. That may seem pretty general, but it's not a difficult concept to embrace. I don't want to be with anyone who is confrontational, rude, incessantly critical (in a non-constructive way) or two-faced. Just be nice.
3. She needs to be down-to-earth and laid back. I don't want to be with anyone who is concerned with social, professional or financial status...whether that expectation is aimed at me, herself or anyone else. (This quality also includes no drama and no baggage!) If two people can successfully achieve Point #1 above, then the only other things that should matter are whether they are intellectually, emotionally and sexually compatible.
4. She needs to be sexually compatible. Again, some might think that the sexual part of a relationship is superficial, but it is nonetheless important. Bottom line, she needs to have a strong libido and the actual desire to "make love like a p**n star". Doesn't have to rise to the level of kink, but there has to be a lot of passion. And the passion has to be genuine; nothing is a bigger turn-off than to know your partner is performing an act as if he or she is doing you a favor. Without being too graphic, shunning normal sexual acts (such as oral) would be a flat-out deal-breaker.
Have at it...
I think this is really sensible and mature. You have a lot of experience which is why i think what you say makes so much sense. I think 1 & 3 are what i would guess. But its made me think about how important the other 2 are. Thanks for teplying
What guys look for in a wife: attractive (what this means can vary from guy to guy), smart, nice, similar interests, easy/relaxing to be around (if you nag a lot, you're annoying to be around), good job. Stuff like that.