Post of the day!
Post of the day!
How old were they? Honestly, I would not date a guy old enough to be my son..,😳 As for fantasies, I wouldn't hesitate to date someone younger than me either....i.e. 10 or less years...🤓
Ben1968 wrote:
You should keep an open mind. I've dated three older women who never even thought about being in a relationship with a younger man - until circumstances brought us together. For example, I dated a 49 year old woman when I was 19. Her husband and my father were best friends and business partners. Her husband spent all of his time working or playing racquetball. She called our house one night when she was having problems with her furnace. Her husband and my father were out of town on business. I went over and we talked all night. Within a week we were a couple. But she never broke up with her husband. In fact, to this day he has no idea.
I was actually nailing your Dad. Now we both know the truth.
I'm pretty sure that you're kidding, but something like this actually happened to me. A family friend's 20 year old daughter had an 18 month relationship with my husband, who was then 61. My husband was obviously going through a late mid-life crisis. I was crushed. I ended up in the arms of a 67 year old female neighbour (I was 32 at the time) who for years made it clear that she was into me. This dalliance evolved into the deepest relationship of my life. However, after a few months I went back to my husband - largely because of his pension. It has taken years to earn back my husband's trust. Was this once in a lifetime romance worth all the pain to my family and innumerable nights of crying myself to sleep? Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? Bien sur!
As a young man, I began what I thought would be a simple fling with an older married woman. But much to my surprise she became my muse. At the time, I was engaged to a cute young exchange student, who had gone back to Lithuania for the term. When my fiancée returned from Vilnius I told her that like a campfire slowly burning down with the setting sun, my passion for her had waned - which, of course,was a lie of omission. It crushed me to let her go, but I couldn't deny my feelings for my older lover. Shortly thereafter, my muse discovered that I had been less than completely forthcoming about my recent romantic history and swore she would never see me again. I will be eternally grateful to a mentor from our village who facilitated a Rapprochement.
Dear god, I love letsrun sometimes.
The level of pure BS in this thread is amazing, it's way pasted hip waders high, we'd all be in a full swim in it at this point.
quickndirty wrote:
The level of pure BS in this thread is amazing, it's way pasted hip waders high, we'd all be in a full swim in it at this point.
"The level of pure BS in this thread is amazing", you could be right, but tell us, WTF are you on about?, I can't make head-nor-tale of your BS post.
Most of the long term relationships (over one year) the women were 23 and 25 years older than me. The one night stands ran into 6 categories. 5yrs and older, 10yrs and older, 15yrs and older, 20yrs and older, 25yrs and older, and my favorite SHUT UP!!! NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS!!!
Albany wrote:
I'm pretty sure that you're kidding, but something like this actually happened to me. A family friend's 20 year old daughter had an 18 month relationship with my husband, who was then 61. My husband was obviously going through a late mid-life crisis. I was crushed. I ended up in the arms of a 67 year old female neighbour (I was 32 at the time) who for years made it clear that she was into me. This dalliance evolved into the deepest relationship of my life. However, after a few months I went back to my husband - largely because of his pension. It has taken years to earn back my husband's trust. Was this once in a lifetime romance worth all the pain to my family and innumerable nights of crying myself to sleep? Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? Bien sur!
Sounds like you two wee made for each other.
Cougar Bait wrote:
Most of the long term relationships (over one year) the women were 23 and 25 years older than me. The one night stands ran into 6 categories. 5yrs and older, 10yrs and older, 15yrs and older, 20yrs and older, 25yrs and older, and my favorite SHUT UP!!! NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS!!!
You are such a troll...🙄
Awesome thread.
Ryan3:51 wrote:
I've been on both sides. In 1965 I was 21. I ended up living with a 56 year old woman for a summer. Since 2005, I've dated 3 women under the age of 24. The woman I lived with in 1965 died in 2006 at the age of 96 years young. One of the most uncomfortable moments of my life was when my ex (who was about 95 at the time) ran into my 22 year old girlfriend and me on our way to her school. Each obviously realized that I had dated the other and, oddly, both seemed a bit jealous. A couple hours later, the 22 year old and I had a laugh about it. Sadly, the other woman passed away in a seniors' home later that year.
That is WONDERFUL fantasy fiction! I'm entranced.
i work out 4-5 times a week my body is better than many half my age its just dbl standard the guy i know my age over weight and old looking just married 47 yr old so yea it sucks
generalize about all women, its bull**** but thats me i must be an anomaly.
Cougar Bait wrote:
Why the hypocrisy?
I did not know that it was not okay. Is there a law against it? Why should anyone else care?
If it works for them, and they are consenting and not in a prohibited situation like teacher-student, coach-athlete, etc.
Sub4:00.07 wrote:
As a young man, I began what I thought would be a simple fling with an older married woman. But much to my surprise she became my muse. At the time, I was engaged to a cute young exchange student, who had gone back to Lithuania for the term. When my fiancée returned from Vilnius I told her that like a campfire slowly burning down with the setting sun, my passion for her had waned - which, of course,was a lie of omission. It crushed me to let her go, but I couldn't deny my feelings for my older lover. Shortly thereafter, my muse discovered that I had been less than completely forthcoming about my recent romantic history and swore she would never see me again. I will be eternally grateful to a mentor from our village who facilitated a Rapprochement.
This has to be one of the best posts I ever read on LetsRun