College aged daughter dating a guy 9 years older

Bad Wigins wrote:

rojo wrote:

we started dating when I was probably about 35 and she was 25.

how do you not know your own age?

Rojo was an age cheat and had a fake birth certificate made. After decades of lying, he doesn't even know his real age.

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Age Cheat wrote:

Bad Wigins wrote:

how do you not know your own age?

Rojo was an age cheat and had a fake birth certificate made. After decades of lying, he doesn't even know his real age.

He should ask his twin brother who may have been born around the same time

70 year old wrote:

I'm 70, in great shape and a 20 year old has been hitting on me for months at the guy. I'm friendly with her but never try to proceed any farther. The thought of a young wife and kids is interesting. Maybe it would be a good idea, but I don't know.

You are such a troll and you know it...🙄 The fact you are old enough to be her great grandfather...please..🙄🙄

70 year old wrote:

I'm 70, in great shape and a 20 year old has been hitting on me for months at the guy. I'm friendly with her but never try to proceed any farther. The thought of a young wife and kids is interesting. Maybe it would be a good idea, but I don't know.

Becky wrote:

You are such a troll and you know it...🙄 The fact you are old enough to be her great grandfather...please..🙄🙄

Maybe he is telling the truth?! I could see it happening. The ways of the heart are mysterious. Heck, at this very moment beautiful Russian women want to meet me. It says so right at the bottom of this page....

r u pedo...? being psychologically ill is not something to brag about. seriously seek professional help

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with dating a guy that’s 9 years older my parents are 15 years apart and my step brother and sister in law are 13 years apart so I don’t see why it’s so weird is it because she’s 21? Maybe he’s a good guy I personally am dating a 30 year old and I’m 21 and I’m so in love with this guy we’re already planning our future together but all I can say is he’s taught me so much and has encouraged me to live my life the proper way instead of going out and ruining my liver every night instead I’m travelling and trying new things coming out of my comfort zone, maybe he meet him first before you judge him. Cause who knows you could ruin your relationship with your daughter because of judgmental mind.

I had a 19 year old GF when I was 32. Ten years later we have been happily married for 8 years and three kids. Sure the age seems big from an outsider... but she was tired of getting HO RUN by "Kids" and was looking for someone stable. I was tired of dating women with three kids from three different dads. We are perfectly balanced regarding power in our relationship.

The only thing we see as a negative is that I'll die when she is young. But isn't that better than being HO RUN by tons of guys before aging enough to date an older guy?

Back in the day many marriages had a ten year gap. Not sure when we got so prude as to judge this in modern times. In all aspects but death it honestly is the best decision for a younger woman.

letsdad wrote:

She is 21 and he is THIRTY. What the what! Where did I go wrong.

Not wrong from a legal standpoint but festering in the realm of impropriety, don't you think? Am I being old fashioned?

Good for him

Da Age Gap wrote:

I had a 19 year old GF when I was 32. Ten years later we have been happily married for 8 years and three kids. Sure the age seems big from an outsider... but she was tired of getting HO RUN by "Kids" and was looking for someone stable. I was tired of dating women with three kids from three different dads. We are perfectly balanced regarding power in our relationship.

The only thing we see as a negative is that I'll die when she is young. But isn't that better than being HO RUN by tons of guys before aging enough to date an older guy?

Back in the day many marriages had a ten year gap. Not sure when we got so prude as to judge this in modern times. In all aspects but death it honestly is the best decision for a younger woman.

Why the F were you dating women with 3 kids at the age of 32 you pedo? What trailer park are you from? How you can date a 19 year old at the age is mind boggling. Bang. Sure that’s pervy. I’ve dont a lot of gross stuff and probably won’t do that. But how you date and then marry a 19 year old... that’s just sad. Do you have some kind of retardation?

One less mouth to feed. Congrats.

oh god wrote:

She is an adult. You are her father, not dating her. Who she dates is none of your business. Be thankful you even know about it. I didn't tell my parents anything about most of the people I dated.

letsdad wrote:

She is 21 and he is THIRTY. What the what! Where did I go wrong.

Not wrong from a legal standpoint but festering in the realm of impropriety, don't you think? Am I being old fashioned?

Right. Why do you think this is your choice?

OP has issues wrote:

letsdad wrote:

She is 21 and he is THIRTY. What the what! Where did I go wrong.

Not wrong from a legal standpoint but festering in the realm of impropriety, don't you think? Am I being old fashioned?

Question for you OP:

Would you rather your daughter date a slacker her own age that has no job, no maturity, and no ability to commit?

Older men tend to be better prospects for marriage-aged women.

#FactsOfLife

Why are those the only two possibilities that you see for someone that age? Not all 21 yr old men lack what you wrote.

Da Age Gap wrote:

I had a 19 year old GF when I was 32. Ten years later we have been happily married for 8 years and three kids. Sure the age seems big from an outsider... but she was tired of getting HO RUN by "Kids" and was looking for someone stable. I was tired of dating women with three kids from three different dads. We are perfectly balanced regarding power in our relationship.

The only thing we see as a negative is that I'll die when she is young. But isn't that better than being HO RUN by tons of guys before aging enough to date an older guy?

Back in the day many marriages had a ten year gap. Not sure when we got so prude as to judge this in modern times. In all aspects but death it honestly is the best decision for a younger woman.

What is HO RUN? Is this something that women you know have to get done to them?

When you die, your wife will be about 70, that is not young.

Maybe I know your Daughter wrote:

This sort of thing used to bother me when I was a college boy. Now I'm in my late 20s and sleep with college girls 7-10 years younger than me all the time. It's awesome.

Ditto. Except I'm in my 30s now, very good job, fit/young looking, attended prestigious schools. Can't tell you how many college-age and mid-20s girls I match with on tinder and go out with. Besides being fitter and generally more fun than most girls my age, they're all really ambitious looking to the next stage of life and I have a lot of interesting experiences to share. There's no real gap in terms of relating to them since I didn't turn into a fuddy-duddy at 27 unlike the OP.

That dude is getting some young, tight, booty!!

letsdad wrote:

She is 21 and he is THIRTY. What the what! Where did I go wrong.

Not wrong from a legal standpoint but festering in the realm of impropriety, don't you think? Am I being old fashioned?

Don't worry, nothing wrong with that. For educational purposes, I suggest the documentary "Barely Legal" for a glimpse into the mindset of your daughter.