College kid, like this chick, but probably ruined it.

Honestly... why not just tell her that you like her and would like to take her out somewhere? It really can be that simple.

As of last Friday, you are permitted to simply grab her by the pussy.

Maybe stop taking her to frat party's where all you do is get wasted? God forbid you go out for dinner or do something that doesn't involve being a drunk slob. If all you want to do is have sex then just move on to a more willing participant.

Dude, she is still texting you, so she is clearly interested still.

But regardless of if she is interested or not, you should apologize for being a jerk. You feel guilty about it, so just tell her that. Tell her in person or call her up to tell her, don't text her.

Then later if she seems interested, go back to how things were before. If she is interested too, eventually she will feel ready and things will happen.

Don't wait forever, but I really don't think you should give up yet.

She wants to be more than just a drunk thing. Next time you run into her on campus or something, say that you want to go out for dinner or that you want to grab a coffee and go for a walk in the park. See how the vibe is. If she's digging you in sober mode then tell her that you like her. If she reciprocates, then maybe do some stuff together in the future and then eventually she's gonna put out. Otherwise, if she's too wishy washy, you gotta take the hint and go for other girls but still say hi to this girl and stuff. Then lay some savage pipe on all the girls and this girl might hear about it and regret and then come back hard.

Ask her out on a real date. How do you not know that?

Honestly, I appreciate all the advice, but I just cannot see myself asking her out for a date. I don't care about rejection when I can use the excuse "I was drunk", even when only buzzed, but I know this girl pretty well so being rejected under the current situation could be awkward. Regardless, I'm going to wait till I see her on campus or out, say a quick apology about that night, and see what happens from there. I realize now that I should 100% apologize in person, and thank the poster who pointed this out.

You're a predator and should be locked up.

She is confused and you should run away from this scene.

ANy Hope wrote:

...being rejected under the current situation could be awkward.

Oh, the irony of you worrying about a potentially awkward situation, as if mewling about this on Let's Run in between bathroom wall-spackling sessions over the girl isn't awkward enough already. For all of us.

Just go talk to her, pusscake.

You screwed up. We've all done that. You don't die from it. If you're smart, you learn from it.

Tell her you acted like an ass (honesty's never a bad idea) and then apologize. Then tell her exactly what's on your mind and let the chips fall where they may.

And if she does say no, boo-freakin-hoo. It's your own fault for screwing up in the first place. Own it, and make it make you a better man going forward

Besides, you're in college. There's plenty of girls. Even after you eliminate the trolls who couldn't get laid on a pirate ship, the hairy-legged feminists, the known disease bearers and the many, many who are clearly out of your league, there's still a pretty good talent pool there.

I get it. You like the girl. That's why I'm being a dick to you about this. I'm like the chemo to your wusscancer, to stop you from being a dick about it yourself and actually do something productive about it.

Seriously, go do this. Tomorrow.

Forget that candy-ass "I'll wait till I see her on campus" nonsense. You'll never, EEEEVER, in a vagillion years do that. You'll just puss out and dive behind a bush as soon as you see her a half dozen different times before you muster up the testicular fortitude to pull the trigger on that plan....and when you finally do, you'll end up "seeing her on campus" with her tongue down some lacrosse players throat.

THERE'S an awkward situation for ya.

No. Go seek her out tomorrow like a damn Viking overlord, sailing the perilous sea looking for new world's to conquer. Tomorrow. Seriously.

Come back tomorrow night and tell us how it went.

Sdfsdfsdfsdf wrote:

Dude, she is still texting you, so she is clearly interested still.

But regardless of if she is interested or not, you should apologize for being a jerk. You feel guilty about it, so just tell her that. Tell her in person or call her up to tell her, don't text her.

Then later if she seems interested, go back to how things were before. If she is interested too, eventually she will feel ready and things will happen.

Don't wait forever, but I really don't think you should give up yet.

Bye the way...I hope you don't call her a "chick" when you're talking to her.

That's points off right there, Fonzie.

We're waiting.

Any woman who continues to engage with such a dipsh1t has some serious issues to sort out. You don't want anything to do with a woman who'd have anything to do with you.

ANy Hope wrote: I realize now that I should 100% apologize in person, and thank the poster who pointed this out.

If you are doing it to hook up, then you are going about it all wrong.

It reads like she doesn't want to hook up or do a FWB thing. Don't mislead her just to get what you want. That's wrong in so many ways.

You seem unclear about your own intentions. Get your head on straight before talking to her again by being honest with yourself and her.

You are being led on. She keeps talking to you because she likes the attention.

Pour your heart out to her. Reveal your vulnerabilities and insecurities. Really bare your soul, preferably in a drunk text or series of texts. Women love that stuff.

You sound like a self-involved dipshit. She clearly wants to go out on dates and connect emotionally/intellectually, not just physically. Judging from your behavior you have no interest in dating this girl -- just banging her. Maybe it's time to recognize that and move on.

I hope you at least apologized for drunkenly trying to force yourself on her.

ANy Hope wrote:

So I met this chick and really hit it off. The second time I see her, we're at a party and probably talking for an hour and a half. Eventually, I go in to make out with her and she says she just got out of a relationship and doesn't want to do anything.

You must met this girl, and you keep trying to make out and have sex with her.

You're being a creep! No wonder she thinks you're a creep.

Stop acting like a creep, and try to develop a real relationship, one that can be meaningful to your life.