Again, I like your posts. My apologies for stepping into a 2-way conversation between you and the fat guy (no offense, Fat - I generally like your posts as well).
I will share my own perspective regarding some of your points as well as some items you did not ask about.
Black violence against policemen is higher than white violence against policemen? I think that this is true.
Police violence against blacks is higher than police violence against whites under essentially the same circumstances? I think that this is true.
A black man ambushes policemen and murders them in cold blood - is this terrorism? Yes
Do commercials, television shows, etc. feel more free to make white males look like morons than to do the same to females, blacks, etc. ? I think that this is true but I do have to admit to being very far removed from pop culture so this one is largely a guess.
Do movies make white males look like heroes more often than women, blacks, etc.? Same answer - I think that this is true but I do have to admit to being very far removed from pop culture so this one is largely a guess.
Is it OK to verbally beat up on white males? Occasionally yes but it is not ok for it to be out of proportion to how other groups are verbally beat up on.
Do rich guys control everything? Yes and no. Rich folks control far out of proportion to their numbers. But this is pretty much the definition of "rich". Rich means lots of money. And money is a means to control things. A rich discussion (pun intended) could revolve around which things it is ok for money to ultimately control and which things we might want to limit the influence of money - and how to do that.
Is white privilege a real thing? Yes
Is being pulled over for "driving while black" a real thing? Yes
Does the black community as a whole inflict a huge portion of the punishment absorbed by the black community? Yes
Is racism and "starting five steps behind" responsible for a huge portion of the pain and suffering experienced by blacks? Yes
Truth, fairness and love is what I want. Where do we go from here?