I need Girl Advice...

You should add her. You know she likes you, you make the first move

If you can approach her in person that would be far better.

Go up to her and say hi. Tell her that Kayla is a friend of yours and that you are interested in getting to know her better (Kelly that is). Tell her a few very simple things about yourself such as where you go to school and any hobbies you are into. (Running, chess club, etc.) Do not get to personal and if you can leave it as a very short conversation that would be best. "It was nice ta meet ya."

Hopefully you will see her again. If this is not likely, take her phone number and tell her you might text her.

Do not under any circumstances be emotional with her. You can be friendly but somewhat distant. If she freaks out or does not respond the best thing to do is stay away from her. If she is somewhat friendly then go for it the next time you see her. Go slooowwww!!!

Don't tell her anything about yourself, ask her questions and listen.

That is true...if she will talk! Perhaps all you can do the first time is say "Hi."

The first thing to do is to stop pining and worrying. The next thing to do is get some female friends and acquaintances with names that begin with a letter other than K.

My point to this young guy is that men must make the first move. It's a fallacy to think that has changed. I think texting or even calling her on the phone might come across as weak. It's okay to make initial contact that way but if you have the opportunity to talk to her in person...do it or you will be not be considered strong. Any text or phone call should be short at least initially.

Women want strong men who will take care of them. I am not talking about being strong physically, but mentally. Having money will often come from that, and that is why women are attracted to "strong" men. Sad but true in most cases.

Women are attracted to strong men.

If the girl indicates any reluctance to go...forget her. She might come back if you are nice to her when she rejects you. Rejection is not always what you think. Sometimes a woman will "reject" a man because she does not feel good enough about herself. I believe that some girls also will test on purpose.

I think there are some very lovely girls that feel like they are not worthy of many men! They might even have a boyfriend but did you look at him? Do you know him? Please consider that she might have picked him because she does not think highly of herself.

I wish my female issues were this simple

What are her PR's? If she can't break 20 for the 5k I say don't waste your time.

[quote]vivalarepublica wrote:

I wish my female issues were this simple[/quote

Please explain the 50 ways?

LRC ladies, care to chime in?

Update:

I don't have Kelly (the girl who likes me) snapchat username or phone number, so I can't talk to her. I hardly see her at school either, I only have one class with Kelly, where she is always with her friends. Just now I said to Kayla that she didn't text me or add me on snapchat. All Kayla said was "oh idk." Then we talked further and she told me that Kelly thought I was hot but didn't want anything. What should I do next? Could Kayla be telling Kelly something different too? Should I go up to Kelly and say something in front of her friends?

What you have to do is run past Kelly in your shortest pair of short shorts. Once you are a safe distance away (20-25 meters) take a glance backward to see if you can catch her looking.

Stare = She's into you

No Eye Contact = She's not into you

Glance = Need more information

GirlAdvicePlease wrote:

Then we talked further and she told me that Kelly thought I was hot but didn't want anything. What should I do next?

#1 why are you being a coward and not introducing yourself IRL to this girl? Seriously. Grow some man-sized stones and introduce yourself in person.

Just say hello and see if you can get her talking about her over some time.

The advice to listen is excellent advice.

Otherwise, there was nothing there but some vague interest. Lots of that in the real the world. You had better get used to it.

I feel like I'm back in junior high reading this thread.

vivalarepublica wrote:

I wish my female issues were this simple

It's not complicated. Have some confidence and talk to women. If you get rejected don't give a f*ck. Too many get their feelings hurt and cry about it.

GirlAdvicePlease wrote:

Update:

I don't have Kelly (the girl who likes me) snapchat username or phone number, so I can't talk to her. I hardly see her at school either, I only have one class with Kelly, where she is always with her friends. Just now I said to Kayla that she didn't text me or add me on snapchat. All Kayla said was "oh idk." Then we talked further and she told me that Kelly thought I was hot but didn't want anything. What should I do next? Could Kayla be telling Kelly something different too? Should I go up to Kelly and say something in front of her friends?

The best thing to do is approach her and say "hi." That shows interest and is at least a start. It may work out that she will make it easier for you to talk to her alone after class the next day. If not you will have to be bold and work your way into their conversation.

Keep in mind that you only have a number of years when the girls your age look good. Many girls are at their peak physically at 22 or so. It's downhill from there for some. Chances are after high school you will not see anyone from your high school. You can be a bit bold in introducing yourself to women.

Never chase a woman though. If she does not respond well or rejects you take it well because even if she doesn't come back, other girls are watching and they might. No relationship should be based on emotion, get the facts before you commit to any girl.

Read the threads on marriage after sex on LRC. Many guys get it only 3-4 times a month after marriage. Get the facts.