90% sure my fiancée is just marrying me for my money

Option 1,

Withdraw lots of cash and keep it in some place away from home(e.g your parent's house or a storage unit). Make sure to keep this a complete secret. It would be sooooo bad if you get caught. But this way, maybe instead of going 50/50. You could get 70% of the money.

Option 2,

Get her pregnant asap and you'll have a family. She would be less likely to divorce. But it'd be soooooo bad if she did and now you gotta split a kid.

PRENUP

Confused 28 year old wrote:

I have spent over 50k on this girl in gifts and social events ect.

I don't make us much as you but 50k on gifts to some random gf? Dude this chick will ruin you. Be happy you've had good sex (that will go south quickly) and pull the plug ASAP.

Tell her you want to keep her as a mistress and get a different wife. It doesn't sound like your reasons for marrying her are any deeper than what you suspect hers are.

If you ain't no punk, holla we want prenup, we want prenup, yeah

Nothing wrong with a woman marrying a man for his money or a man using his money to get a woman. It's just common sense. Wouldn't you do the same if you were a woman?

Be 100% sure: I'm doing her behind your back. Turn around and watch the action, homeboy.

Son, you've been dating this girl for a year, and you spent 50k? I think they have a name for her type... hooker.

Confused 28 year old wrote:

It has become increasingly evident to me over the past year of us dating that she is just in this for my money. First she is extremely hot and I am a pretty average looking guy working as a petroleum engineer making 150k a year. I have spent over 50k on this girl in gifts and social events ect. We have a date planned for the wedding but I'm pretty sure she will pull the plug within 2-3 years to get half. Part of me wants to leave her but my sex life has never been this good and I will never have a chance at a girl like this again. What are your thoughts letsrun?

Exactly.

Your story reminds me of……………………….my story.

It also reminds me of some wisdom from a Yogi:

"It's like deja vu all over again."

Have you thought about taking the Naked Bipolar Yogaâ„¢ class with Suzy "Favor" Hamilton???

(I have thought about the class... and I am taking the class... which meets on Saturday night at 11:00pm.)

Trust your instincts, I guess, but 150k isn't that much. Does she know how much you make? Maybe if you spent $50k on her, she thinks you make a lot more? Do you live in a small town where that is a lot of money?

Also, you sound like you're only with her because she's hot, so what's the difference?

Yoga class update:

1) Naked Bipolar Yogaâ„¢ with Suzy "Favor" Hamilton = Naked Bi-Pole-ar Yogaâ„¢ with Suzy "Favor" Hamilton.

2) Really scary and dangerous = really fun at the same time

3)……..Tania TIGER………… = …..Tania TIGER kitten……….

4) Extremely volatile Italian girlfriend = Extremely volatile Italian girlfriend

5) ……….……WOW…………...…….. = ……………WOW…………..

6)……... etc…etc…etc……. = ……..etc…etc…etc…….

Just tell her that you lost your job and that she needs to get one so that you can still have the wedding on time.

I must say, this happens all the time in my particular field, and it pains me to read this. There is no right answer, except you must ensure that every step you take from this point forward is extremely well calculated from a financial standpoint - it wouldn't hurt to speak to a trusted financial advisor (no I'm not in finance, so this isn't self-serving advice).

That's pretty funny how you think this amazing sex will continue after the marriage. She's knows exactly what she's doing. Don't be another broke and bitter divorce statistic.

momjeans wrote:

Trust your instincts, I guess, but 150k isn't that much

C'mon, at 28 years old, $150k is a solid salary.

4/10

Got some solid responses.

Also, this thread is useless without pics of her.

Idontreallyknow wrote:

PRENUP

End of thread. I can't believe this thread went beyond this reply.

Confused 28 year old wrote:

First she is extremely hot ... I have spent over 50k on this girl in gifts and social events ect. ... my sex life has never been this good?

If you are willing to keep spending 50K, your sex life can be that good without her. You might have an even better sex life with a girl that's less hot. The only reason to have a hot wife is to show her off, not the bed room.

You're only marrying her because she's hot and for the sex.

Perfect match.