Should I Move on?

Divorce does suck especially if it is not mutual.

Everyone deals with it differently.

Based on my experience and talking with lots of other divorced folks, I think no one should be looking for a relationship in the first year following divorce. Heck, not even sure dating is that great of an idea.

Divorce sucks? wrote:my soon 2 be ex has moved on w/his life w/his new girlfriend

Clue #1. SOON TO BE EX

Get some professional help transitioning out of the relationship. It's not easy sometimes.

pop_pop!_v2.2.1 wrote:

Divorce sucks? wrote:my soon 2 be ex has moved on w/his life w/his new girlfriend

Clue #1. SOON TO BE EX

Get some professional help transitioning out of the relationship. It's not easy sometimes.

You think? Why do you think I need this advice? Please explain..:)

Listen, you are a beautiful woman, don't treat yourself like a snow shovel, be patient.

Of course you're ex is an unempathetic retard, so just chill out, go get some ice cream, go for a road trip, go running up a mountain, no rush, revenge, childish crap.

Breathe and be nice and strong.

Find a nice looking guy to do things with that you never did with your soon to be ex.

Perhaps you should go black to scratch that itch youve always had...

I think you should go down on a few guys and see what becomes of it.

My current boyfriend said the best advice he took after splitting up with his ex wife was to start dating again. Maybe you can just go on a dating website and go out with a few people to see what's out there; you don't need to get into a serious relationship right away?

Divorce is tough. My b/f talks about how much it sucked, and both he and his ex wanted the divorce. So to that end, I agree that you may need councilling to help you get through a difficult time. (Travelling is awesome, too.)

luv2run wrote:

Divorce does suck especially if it is not mutual.

Everyone deals with it differently.

Based on my experience and talking with lots of other divorced folks, I think no one should be looking for a relationship in the first year following divorce. Heck, not even sure dating is that great of an idea.

I do not understand how every difficult instance in life gets the advice for 'counseling' or 'professional help.' Hang out with friends and confide in someone you trust - no need to get plugged into an industry that will likely suck you in for life. Stay positive and don't harp on the negative stuff, the latter being something you would do to excess in 'therapy.'

Thank you, yes I will be patient and focus more on my running & life. I just have moments where it's hard at times but I will be fine...😊

Divorce sucks? wrote:

Thank you, yes I will be patient and focus more on my running & life. I just have moments where it's hard at times but I will be fine...😊

Until then, we trolls are here for you.

Pics?

lol. That's why I luv LetsRun...😘

Sounds like you already made up your mind. I say Yay, and as a guy. Go for it. It's past, time for a new you now. Get a new wardrobe. I'd live to see a female twirl around in a dress, definitely not my wife would do this. You are free now, use it.