I don't fit into a group. I'm not a jock, nerd, introvert, extrovert, etc. I can "act" each part decently. I don't even know what the real me is. I have seen guys take on a different role when trying to attract, but if I were to do that I am not sure which role would be best to act. Do any of you guys struggle with this problem?
Merry Christmas jamin!
You fit into the misfit group. I've only seen one you. You have others?
No. I don't struggle with that problem.
Word-thinking.
Happy birthday HardLoper!
jamin wrote:
trying to attract,
attract women
TAA wrote:
Happy birthday HardLoper!
Thank you, TAA! Merry Christmas!
Jamin's group: Neonazis
Who am I?
Why am I here?
Forget the questions, someone get me another beer.
My second post on a jamin thread -- twice and only twice.
I've met you and you fit into the "that weird guy" category nicely. You're a creepy, introverted, right wing twerp. Your issue is that you're trying to come up with a positive label for yourself and can't do that.
jamin wrote:
I don't fit into a group. I'm not a jock, nerd, introvert, extrovert, etc. I can "act" each part decently. I don't even know what the real me is. I have seen guys take on a different role when trying to attract, but if I were to do that I am not sure which role would be best to act. Do any of you guys struggle with this problem?
Now that you mention it, I used to ask myself that question constantly in my teens and early twenties. Then it just sort of went away. I never stopped playing different roles though. I guess it's just one of those quintessential coming of age questions every one asks for a while.
I've felt the same way in college, and after college. Now that I'm 2 years out, I'm starting to realize that you just need to take care of yourself generally, and then have a few important things to fill your plate with. You can always mold a bit to the people you are hanging around (computer nerds, business guys, working out bros, frat type party bros, etc), but because you are focusing on a few goals and pursuing them with your energy, you become a "doer." I think guys recognize this, and girls recognize this as well. It lets you give less of a fk about what other people think, because they are on their path, and you are on yours. This should be attractive to the opposite secks, etc.
Don't get me wrong, I don't have this all figured out. This was just a very recent conclusion because I don't do much at my job and feel like I didn't have anything to be proud about besides my bs salary. Working on side projects and learning things is good to focus on. Don't give a fk about what other people think. Use good advice, discard the other bs.
Also, jamin I used to read TRP and all that stuff too. Some definite diamonds in the rough, but overall it's really poisonous stuff. I've gotten a lot happier and gotten more girls after throwing it to the side. When you read it all the time, you get a chip on your shoulder that other people can sense. You'll only attract broken girls if you go 100% TRP.
I kno wrote:
Jamin's group: Neonazis
Stop the name-calling.
Yes Jamin', Listen to "swaglord". The retail assistant manager at the supplements store in the mall. His IQ will guide you.
swaglord wrote:
I've felt the same way in college, and after college. Now that I'm 2 years out, I'm starting to realize that you just need to take care of yourself generally, and then have a few important things to fill your plate with. You can always mold a bit to the people you are hanging around (computer nerds, business guys, working out bros, frat type party bros, etc), but because you are focusing on a few goals and pursuing them with your energy, you become a "doer." I think guys recognize this, and girls recognize this as well. It lets you give less of a fk about what other people think, because they are on their path, and you are on yours. This should be attractive to the opposite secks, etc.
Don't get me wrong, I don't have this all figured out. This was just a very recent conclusion because I don't do much at my job and feel like I didn't have anything to be proud about besides my bs salary. Working on side projects and learning things is good to focus on. Don't give a fk about what other people think. Use good advice, discard the other bs.
Also, jamin I used to read TRP and all that stuff too. Some definite diamonds in the rough, but overall it's really poisonous stuff. I've gotten a lot happier and gotten more girls after throwing it to the side. When you read it all the time, you get a chip on your shoulder that other people can sense. You'll only attract broken girls if you go 100% TRP.
Hi Taa and hard!!!
You know deep down what group you belong to, you're just in denial.
swaglord wrote:
I've felt the same way in college, and after college. Now that I'm 2 years out, I'm starting to realize that you just need to take care of yourself generally, and then have a few important things to fill your plate with. You can always mold a bit to the people you are hanging around (computer nerds, business guys, working out bros, frat type party bros, etc), but because you are focusing on a few goals and pursuing them with your energy, you become a "doer." I think guys recognize this, and girls recognize this as well. It lets you give less of a fk about what other people think, because they are on their path, and you are on yours. This should be attractive to the opposite secks, etc.
Don't get me wrong, I don't have this all figured out. This was just a very recent conclusion because I don't do much at my job and feel like I didn't have anything to be proud about besides my bs salary. Working on side projects and learning things is good to focus on. Don't give a fk about what other people think. Use good advice, discard the other bs.
Also, jamin I used to read TRP and all that stuff too. Some definite diamonds in the rough, but overall it's really poisonous stuff. I've gotten a lot happier and gotten more girls after throwing it to the side. When you read it all the time, you get a chip on your shoulder that other people can sense. You'll only attract broken girls if you go 100% TRP.
Did Jamin join a cult? That's a shocker.
swaglord wrote:
I've felt the same way in college, and after college. Now that I'm 2 years out, I'm starting to realize that you just need to take care of yourself generally, and then have a few important things to fill your plate with. You can always mold a bit to the people you are hanging around (computer nerds, business guys, working out bros, frat type party bros, etc), but because you are focusing on a few goals and pursuing them with your energy, you become a "doer." I think guys recognize this, and girls recognize this as well. It lets you give less of a fk about what other people think, because they are on their path, and you are on yours. This should be attractive to the opposite secks, etc.
Don't get me wrong, I don't have this all figured out. This was just a very recent conclusion because I don't do much at my job and feel like I didn't have anything to be proud about besides my bs salary. Working on side projects and learning things is good to focus on. Don't give a fk about what other people think. Use good advice, discard the other bs.
Also, jamin I used to read TRP and all that stuff too. Some definite diamonds in the rough, but overall it's really poisonous stuff. I've gotten a lot happier and gotten more girls after throwing it to the side. When you read it all the time, you get a chip on your shoulder that other people can sense. You'll only attract broken girls if you go 100% TRP.
Excellent post! Do you ever feel like you're a con artist?
There are only two questions:
1) Who am I?
2) How should I live my life?
Discovering the answers is a life-long journey.
RIP: D3 All-American Frank Csorba - who ran 13:56 in March - dead
RENATO can you talk about the preparation of Emile Cairess 2:06
Running for Bowerman Track Club used to be cool now its embarrassing
Hats off to my dad. He just ran a 1:42 Half Marathon and turns 75 in 2 months!
Great interview with Steve Cram - says Jakob has no chance of WRs this year