Like you thought you wouldn't do something but you did? I'm 16 and I don't want to get married or have kids but my dad is really mad about that. Will my attitude change or not? There are too many slick bitch### and I have seen too many examples to know how it ruins people. I want to get a vasectomy because I'm obviously going to be sexually active with girls and have a girlfriend but I never want to have children. I know it will be hard to find a girl who is willing to have a serious relationship without having kids or getting married but I'll do it. So should I or will I change my mind?