This is not to brag about what I did today. I am often lost in my own little world and pretty much do what I need to do to get ahead.
Today I was heading to grab some lunch and got stuck behind some rather unusual traffic. When I finally saw what was going on, I realized it was a guy whose car had stalled out at a busy traffic light and he couldn't get his car to start again. As I passed him, he was on the phone and looked pretty stressed out. Everyone was honking and swerving around him. I did the same. As I crossed the intersection and went on my way, I thought about how he must be feeling. I decided to turn around and go over and see if he wanted someone to push him out of the intersection. I pulled into a parking lot and ran down the road to help. As I ran up and asked, he seemed so relieved. I told him to put it into neutral and I started pushing. As soon as I did this, about three other guys flashed their hazards and joined me. We got him out of the intersection and over to a gas station. Everyone was smiling and we all shook hands. As I ran back to my car, I realized that I had a sort of "high" from the experience. I was smiling ear-to-ear and just felt good. All I had gotten out of it was a wasted 10 minutes, why was I so happy? Even a few hours later, I am still looking back on the situation with a sense of happiness.
Why does it feel so good to direct help others and why don't we do it more often? He probably had 150 people pass him while he was sitting there, none of whom stopped to help him. Even I drove by with no intention of helping. For some reason I decided to stop. I don't know why, but I am going to start helping more often because it feels good. I guess that is selfish, IDK.
I would love to hear from others about times when you may have helped someone and felt pretty good about it.