Really hit it off with a woman. She dumped me when I lied about my decent income.

Hshdhdhdjdbd wrote:

Hey OP: so did you f*ck her or not. It's really that simple. Not that complicated.

We were dating 2.5 months. How is that even a question?

She's good looking, probably ~8/10 depending on the eye of the beholder. She was plenty hot for me, and I really liked her. Still a bit bummed about the whole thing. Yeah, sure, dodged a bullet or whatever, but it's a shame there was any bullet to dodge is all I'm saying. She's got kids, so that complicates things. I can't blame her for wanting to better her situation, but I ain't gonna support some other dude's kids.

Wait..... You didn't say she has kids before. This changes everything. What did you expect her to do in the long run? Dump her kids because you are too cheap?

Women are mostly about money and your ex was mostly about it big time. You might be at a loss now as to why she dumped you and feel a little sad but in the long run it could be the best thing that has ever to you. Lesson learned. Hope you find a nice women who is a decent person too.

I'm confused. She was after your money. She dumped you when you told her you didnt make as much as she had hoped. And you're sad about this? WTF? Either you need to get a real life, or this is the best epic troll ever!!!

9/10

desperaterunner wrote:

Sadly, most women are really out for a rich guy.

I work with 2 really obese guys who make a good income both have smoking hot wives. Money can go a LONG way.

How is this a bad thing? Not everyone is a perfect Chad you know with a chiseled face and 6'2 height. Some of us unattractive men need other ways to pull tail.

Yes, it stops when you get better at sorting out people who are "in transition" and have "colorful pasts" -- all BS terms to cover for your lack of judgment.

Your terminology gives you away. "I'm not going to put a bunch of money INTO A GIRL."

Fool, that is the way you talk about cars, not HUMANS.

This one is on you, pal.

Expect more of this in the future until YOU change.

good for you, if you really liked her , you deserve someone better. Gold diggers are going to put their BS standards. The world is becoming full of those looser girls.

2 Phones wrote:

You must be under the age of 25 or still in college. Women care a lot about money.

You must be brain dead. SOME women care a lot about money. SOME women do not.

Grow up, get a brain, or STFU.

Please call us.....i mean her, if you ever decide to come home early.

She wasn't in a transitional period when we started dating. She was very stable. Her work situation changed drastically when there was a fiasco at work suddenly and a number of people quit making her life very unpleasant. This happened after we'd been dating about 7 weeks.

I phrased things the way I did as it was meant to be shorthand for a longer explanation that everyone understands. I don't want to spend a bunch of money on lavish dates or vacations or presents early on in a relationship because it could all very well be for nothing and this is a period of a relationship when the focus should simply be on getting to know one another, not impressing each other with money.

Her past is colorful mainly as a result of different events that have happened in her life that she had little to no control over. It's out of the ordinary, but most of it is not her fault. It's just life.

Wise One wrote:

Wait..... You didn't say she has kids before. This changes everything. What did you expect her to do in the long run? Dump her kids because you are too cheap?

This response doesn't even make sense to me. She has a job and is receiving child support from her ex-husband. We've been dating less than 3 months. You really think it is standard for a guy like myself in such a situation to start funding her and her kids like they're my own? You must be one pathetic loser.

Did its job I guess wrote:

Wise One wrote:

Wait..... You didn't say she has kids before. This changes everything. What did you expect her to do in the long run? Dump her kids because you are too cheap?

This response doesn't even make sense to me. She has a job and is receiving child support from her ex-husband. We've been dating less than 3 months. You really think it is standard for a guy like myself in such a situation to start funding her and her kids like they're my own? You must be one pathetic loser.

Well you don't come across as any special catch yourself. Why would she even stay with you if you refuse to accept her kids?

Wise One wrote:

Wait..... You didn't say she has kids before. This changes everything. What did you expect her to do in the long run? Dump her kids because you are too cheap?

Odd to issue the command "wait" in this format.

Wise One wrote:

Did its job I guess wrote:

This response doesn't even make sense to me. She has a job and is receiving child support from her ex-husband. We've been dating less than 3 months. You really think it is standard for a guy like myself in such a situation to start funding her and her kids like they're my own? You must be one pathetic loser.

Well you don't come across as any special catch yourself. Why would she even stay with you if you refuse to accept her kids?

You should read what I wrote again.

I read what you wrote. You now come off sounding like just another guy looking for a lay. Put yourself in her shoes. Why would she stay with a guy that couldn't provide for her and her kids? What did you bring to the relationship? Certainly not good looks or ovaries.

Things were only going great because she was being extra nice to you, so you would give her money. Once it was apparent you wouldn't, she's moving on to the next guy who might.

hjftwj wrote:

Things were only going great because she was being extra nice to you, so you would give her money. Once it was apparent you wouldn't, she's moving on to the next guy who might.

Nothing wrong with that. Guys are extra nice to girls with big boobs.

redux wrote:

You lied and she lied. Wtf are you trying to get uppity about it? The

You day-drinking already? The

So you found a hooker? What did you expect?