Anyone else not like staying the night with SOs?

fit for life wrote:

I've been dating a girl recently, and she really wants me to spend the night. I don't like to. I like the stuff before that, but I just like sleeping in my own bed and not having to worry about another person when I get up in the morning. Solutions?

Is there anything specific about staying the night that significantly bothers you besides not having to worry about someone when waking up? For instance, does she snore? Does her body heat make it difficult for you to sleep? Is the bed too small? etc.

I'm not a ladies man by any means (also got married fairly young), but a king sized bed is a great solution to this issue. (The frank & Estelle approved twin beds would be a little weird).

Worry about someone in the morning? Worry? That's when you crank it back up again and start the day off right!

The main problem is that she only has a double mattress and I can't sleep. She's not huge or anything, but when she sleeps on her back (most nights), there isnt a ton of room left so I'm stuck trying to sleep on my side on the edge of the mattress.

2 words: Dutch Oven

fit for life wrote:

I've been dating a girl recently, and she really wants me to spend the night. I don't like to. I like the stuff before that, but I just like sleeping in my own bed and not having to worry about another person when I get up in the morning. Solutions?

Solutions:

1. End the relationship. That way you don't have to worry about another person when you get up in the morning.

2. Offer to let the girl sleep on the couch in a different room. That way you can spend the night, have the bed to yourself, and don't have to worry about another person when you get up the morning.

3. Buy the girl a tent and show her how to set it up in the backyard. That way she gets fresh air and a new skill, you have the bed to yourself (plus the option of moving to the couch), and don't have to worry about another person when you get up in the morning.

4. Pay for a hotel room for the girl. That way she gets a fun evening alone, you can have a different girl over (who can sleep on the couch or in the tent), you have the bed to yourself (plus the option of moving to to the couch or tent), and don't have to worry about another person when you get up in the morning.

5. Hire armed guards that will come in and remove the girl whenever you are feeling bothered, that way you don't have to worry about another person when you get up in the morning.

6. Drink heavily and sleep in until the afternoon. That way you avoid the whole "worrying about another person in the morning" thing.

if you were really into her, you'd want to stay and wouldn't mind the smaller bed. you'd want to be around her as much as physically possible.i think that is your answer.OR, maybe you're just a huge pu**y, and will never be happy.

fit for life wrote:

I've been dating a girl recently, and she really wants me to spend the night. I don't like to. I like the stuff before that, but I just like sleeping in my own bed and not having to worry about another person when I get up in the morning. Solutions?

fit for life wrote:

I've been dating a girl recently, and she really wants me to spend the night. I don't like to. I like the stuff before that, but I just like sleeping in my own bed and not having to worry about another person when I get up in the morning. Solutions?

I think she will give you a solution soon.

i am the same way OP, can't stand it

So let me get this straight, you're having sex with a woman you didn't even have the decency to marry, but are kind of inconvenienced by having to stay with her for a few hours afterwards. Oh, and you're not afraid to post about it on the internet.Women of modern America, you officially have the lowest standards of all time. This country is filled with half-men.

fit for life wrote:

I've been dating a girl recently, and she really wants me to spend the night. I don't like to. I like the stuff before that, but I just like sleeping in my own bed and not having to worry about another person when I get up in the morning. Solutions?

just hot facts wrote:

if you were really into her, you'd want to stay and wouldn't mind the smaller bed. you'd want to be around her as much as physically possible.

Not true, some people prefer to have their own space.

Hey man, why don't you just invite her over to your place. That bottom bunk probably doesn't get used much.

bro think it through wrote:

Hey man, why don't you just invite her over to your place. That bottom bunk probably doesn't get used much.

There are no bunks in the basement, no space. Try to keep up.

Some people prefer their own space. I am a light sleeper, my wife has her own bedroom and her own bathroom. I am a night owl and she is not. She "swims" at night, talks in her sleep, snores, etc. I hear it all and everything wakes me up. I sleep with the ceiling fan on, and usually put on a youtube video of white noise like:

https://youtu.be/LuwUocxuxhQ?list=PL4fh8LVmFIx51vp8to_ozdDNr8JcwYFxB

She wakes up early, and heads off to work. I wake up just after the garage door goes down. It works out well, I am a much nicer husband when I get a full night's sleep.

PS - we go "visit" each other, but one of us ends up doing the "walk of shame". ;-)

Angry Willy wrote:

Some people prefer their own space. I am a light sleeper, my wife has her own bedroom and her own bathroom. I am a night owl and she is not. She "swims" at night, talks in her sleep, snores, etc. I hear it all and everything wakes me up. I sleep with the ceiling fan on, and usually put on a youtube video of white noise like:

https://youtu.be/LuwUocxuxhQ?list=PL4fh8LVmFIx51vp8to_ozdDNr8JcwYFxB

She wakes up early, and heads off to work. I wake up just after the garage door goes down. It works out well, I am a much nicer husband when I get a full night's sleep.

She gonna leave you wrote:

I think she will give you a solution soon.

If she does not want to end up as a Wendy she better show this Peter Pan the door.