Sometimes you just know when you meet the person. I did and even though we have only been dating 2 weeks, we have been spending every free minute together.
What is the soonest you can drop the L-word on your girlfriend?
Sometimes you just know when you meet the person. I did and even though we have only been dating 2 weeks, we have been spending every free minute together.
What is the soonest you can drop the L-word on your girlfriend?
Why do you think your girlfriend is a Lesbian? There really is no timetable for asking if she is a L-word, the sooner the better.
I was assuming OP and the girlfriend were both lesbians, but they would have already moved in together
Lyme disease? OP you probably should get that checked out as soon as possible.
Sorry, I forgot many people here don't date so there wouldn't understand that the L-word stands for LOVE.I didn't write love because I wanted to emphasize that is a big thing. Sorry to confuse you guys.No it doesn't mean lesbian either.
Oral Roberts wrote:
lickmyassplease? if she hasn't done it already i'm afraid you might be out of luck.
It was about 2 weeks in when I first said it. She just stared at me like I was insane for saying it so soon. But that was 10 years ago and we're still together (married now, of course), so I guess it all worked out!
of course, now she said it to me and I stare at her like she's insane. Do you know how long 10 years is?! If I had committed manslaughter, I'd be out by now. Instead I'm stuck married forever.
I kid, I kid... Mostly...
In my experience, I always say after the first date, never ends up well but still.
Well I would start by saying not to spend every free minute with each other... Don't neglect current friends or anything else but still make some time for her. Love is a fickle thing brah, you don't wanna cut ties or skip things with your friends to just hang with this chick.... because then if something happens with you two, or she has other plans, what're you gonna do when your friends are no longer your friends.
TL;DR Watch "I love you man" and be a little more patient
Protect Ya Neck wrote:
Well I would start by saying not to spend every free minute with each other... Don't neglect current friends or anything else but still make some time for her. Love is a fickle thing brah, you don't wanna cut ties or skip things with your friends to just hang with this chick.... because then if something happens with you two, or she has other plans, what're you gonna do when your friends are no longer your friends.
TL;DR Watch "I love you man" and be a little more patient
True but really I love spending time with her and she feels the same way toward me. My friends understand. I am sure this won't last this intensely forever.
1 week for me and proposed 1 month later-still very happily married for 16 years and never any doubts. Sometimes love is, actually, quite easy.
1 week wrote:
1 week for me and proposed 1 month later-still very happily married for 16 years and never any doubts. Sometimes love is, actually, quite easy.
YES!! I believe this to be true.
If you need to ask the dickstains on this board then it is too soon. Grow up.
way of the world? wrote:
Sometimes you just know when you meet the person. I did and even though we have only been dating 2 weeks, we have been spending every free minute together.
What is the soonest you can drop the L-word on your girlfriend?
How old are you? This sounds like junior high school romance.
don't ever say it and mean it
don't ever mean it and say it
live well
Regardless, you've made a wise choice to come to this site and ask this important question. I look forward to your next post "Girls have different parts than boys. Why?"
Lice? Best you tell her about the little critters as soon as possible so she can seek appropriate medical attention.
"Lust"? You're a teenage boy... Honesty is the best policy.
If you go by international standards it is 3 weeks.
Sorry, OP. Claiming you love a girl after 14 days is like saying "running is my life" after putting in a couple 40 mile weeks. Get back to us after you've spent countless weeks in the triple digits and dealt with a million different injuries and setbacks.
Two people can't claim to to be truly in love until they've spent years neck-deep in each other's BS and are still willing to stick around for more pain and suffering. It doesn't matter how completely overwhelming the hormones feel or how much you enjoy being around each other during the "getting to know you phase," budding romances don't count.
I write it in the first mail I send them on eHarmony.