Slept with a lesbian? Need your advice.

It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

Are you gender neutral now ?

Moose wrote:

So my close friend (who is into girls exclusively) and I hung out last night. We both got pretty drunk and I told her that her bangs looked really good. One thing led to another and we ended up....hooking up.

The thing is, I don\'t know what this means for our friendship. She\'s super cool and I would be so down to date her, except I never thought of her that way because she was always...off the market you know? Now I don\'t know what to do. The goodbye was awkward and I don\'t know whether we can still be friends. Help???

You two ladies should just go ahead and get your freak on.

The thing to do is nothing. Expect nothing. She's gay, and she's not into you. You have the ability to ruin your friendship by being awkward and trying to figure out where your relationship is. If you don't do that, it will be fine. Let it go.

If she is, in fact, into you, then she has the opportunity to let you know that. If she doesn't, then she's not interested, she's still gay, and you are out of luck. Go find someone who likes dongs.

You had the benefits, and it would never work out if you were dating.

And praise the lord you didn't hang out with your closet friend being secretly into homoerotic gay encounters.

All I read is that you are doing weird things when intoxicated. Direct your attention there. You haven't "scored" but you have made troubles for yourself.

pics?

Been having sex with a gal friend who is gay and have been for years. To quote her--good sex is good sex that's why they invented the term "Friends With Benefits. My then GF, her and I shared an apartment as a threesome for over decade.

questioner of math wrote:

It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

[quote]I've postedthis before wrote:

Been having sex with a gal friend who is gay and have been for years. To quote her--good sex is good sex that's why they invented the term "Friends With Benefits.

My then GF, her and I shared an apartment as a threesome for over decade.

[quote]questioner of math .

Yeah ,right .

You have just made hundreds of thousands of LRCers running 13:30 5ks benching 300lbs and clearing$ 275,000 a year suicidal .

Hope you can sleep tonight .

It means you are a girl now.

But at least you can use their toilets in North Carolina.

No XX woman is really lesbian. All they need to be cured is some soft talking and a big D.

Your friend obviously identifies as a lesbian and girl, but you haven't told us which sex she was assigned at birth or which gender (if any) her body is aligned to now. To put it another way, does your butt hurt today?

converter of lesbians wrote:

No XX woman is really lesbian. All they need to be cured is some soft talking and a big D.

You obviously have never had something with a lesbian. My farthest was into a bathtub.

Te crp wrote:

converter of lesbians wrote:

No XX woman is really lesbian. All they need to be cured is some soft talking and a big D.

You obviously have never had something with a lesbian. My farthest was into a bathtub.

Not to belittle you, but did you read the second requirement I listed?

Well played!

Another tiny victory for you!

Sounds like the opportunity for two chicks at the same time may be in your future.

Some girls have two lists of sexual partners, the one they share with LTR partners that's shorter than the other one and not publicly discussed and mostly one-time things. You made the second list.

Sounds like maybe you need to be honest about your feelings for a girl that's not available to you. Why are you choosing girls that aren't available? Think about that.

Alcohol probably a bad choice for you too.

pop_pop!_v2.2.1 wrote:

Some girls have two lists of sexual partners, the one they share with LTR partners that's shorter than the other one and not publicly discussed and mostly one-time things. You made the second list.

Sounds like maybe you need to be honest about your feelings for a girl that's not available to you. Why are you choosing girls that aren't available? Think about that.

Alcohol probably a bad choice for you too.

What's with the sissy temperance movement in this thread?

He and a friend had some drinks and mutually agreed to pleasuring each other.

Oh noes!

Buddy and his friend acted on their feelings. Now they have to deal with it - which isn't a bad thing.

Don't blame the demon alcohol, and quit making this out to be a case of substance abuse.

Sheesh.

Moose wrote:

So my close friend (who is into girls exclusively) and I hung out last night. We both got pretty drunk and I told her that her bangs looked really good. One thing led to another and we ended up....hooking up.

The thing is, I don't know what this means for our friendship. She's super cool and I would be so down to date her, except I never thought of her that way because she was always...off the market you know? Now I don't know what to do. The goodbye was awkward and I don't know whether we can still be friends. Help???

As in literature: Hans Brinker stuck his finger in the dyke and saved Holland.

As for you, you stuck in your thumb and pulled out a plumb, in the sense that you can learn what chicks like in order to seduce them in the future. So use this experience, and with practice, you may be able to get this chick to switch teams.

Moose wrote:

I don't know whether we can still be friends. Help???

Don't worry. She'll take care of this. Expect a rape allegation in a few days. Everyone knows she's a lesbian. You don't stand a chance. But hey! You'll get sex in prison too!