Here's my situation. I'm a frosh in college and all throughout HS i had a policy that I wouldn't date anyone (especially girls on my team.) I went out with a couple girls occasionally and had my fun prom dates and stuff like that but I never gave anything an opportunity to distract me from training. I got steam rolled by a couple girls after telling them that lol. Anyways, here I am in my first year of school and I really really like a girl on the team and we talk non-stop. I was thinking of keeping my policy for a year or two more but I figure the older I get the more and more that policy hurts me...thoughts?
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