3 dates - no kiss

Worthless without pics

She's cute

mr. obvious wrote:

Worthless without pics

Spaghetti dinner. It's a classic.

In a situation like that, the standard course of action is to escalate straight to a facial.

Just kiss her. Grab her and kiss her. If she freaks out, then you know you're wasting your time. No girl who is interested will freak out by being kissed after three dates though. If she doesn't like it, she is clearly not interested in you romantically.

Keep taking it easy. Don't push it if you like her. No rush if it's something good.

How about; tell her you really like her and have really enjoyed the time you have spent getting to know her, and that you would love to kiss her. Even go as far as to just ask if you can give her a kiss.

Might pay off to just be upfront and honest about how you are feeling. I'm sure she will appreciate it either way.

What is her history like? Is it possible she's like a virgin or very inexperienced? I can think of a few scenarios.

1) She's very inexperienced and scared (or perhaps very religious).

2) A complete psycho but this seems unlikely as you are spending a ton of time hanging out together and talking so that's on you if she's able to fool you for hours.

I wish I had the guts to do the following:

Ok, By this point you have to show some physical connection, or else you get friend zoned. Instead of just letting her out of the car, why not walk her to the door. When you get there, tell her something she wants to here. Then you just go in and kiss her and don't make it seem like huge deal. move accordingly from there.

If she freaks, move on.

Pucker up and let the kiss come to you.

You gotta eat the booty like groceries. Seriously. Ask her if you can go down on her back there.

The way it seems u guys can get along well and that's a good recipe for a long term relation or marriage.

If you really like her, don't rush things. Whoever told u to grab her and kiss her coz no girl would refuse a kiss after 3 dates if she likes you, is far off.

She must be thinking of a long term relation and not a fling.

So it depends on what u want.

If u want a fling then take a risk and rush things. If u think long term, take it easy.

My two cents.

Anyone else thinking "5k"?

So you have some experience over various distances and types of races. This sounds like a very tactical 10k indeed. You're on a great day and feel this could be yours, but everyone is just watching each other.

Don't make the all-out move too early. The idea that after 3 laps anything is decided is common, but just very arbitrary and often wrong. Test the waters with a tentative move, but always hold something back.

You just have to go with the race. When it's so tactical, the crowbar doesn't help. Go with the moves. Feel it. Surprise, but in a good way.

"hang out" she uses those words, then she does not consider you a date.

I know you are not going to like this, but the only thing that will help is to blow her off for a few days. It works, I'm serious. Don't return any texts, . Don't answer any calls. Don't do anything for at least a week. Then answer a call and act like you might not be available, etc.

You see, men are different than women. A woman will always wonder " what did I do wrong?" if they are interested in you. If she quits calling or showing any interest, then you have your answer. If she does call a few times and leaves text messages asking you to call or get back to her, then you'll know you have her right where you want her.

Do you know that she is 100% single at this point? Maybe she is involved with someone else and is just trying you out in a non-physical way.

Waiting for an outbreak to pass?

Newflash: you've not been going on dates

You may want to ask Bill Cosby.

Lowell George Fan wrote:

Keep taking it easy. Don't push it if you like her. No rush if it's something good.

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