introverted dude wrote:
I'm an introvert. Take her to dinner and make yourself have a conversation with her. Try to find out about who she is/what makes her tick and be open to letting her know about you as well.
Sorry, man, I know conversation can be uncomfortable for our personality type, especially in an extended situation, but you've got to do it. The other stuff just wastes time without you getting to know her much. Upside to my idea: if she is not a good match for you, you will find out early and spare yourself (and her) some grief.
Ask questions particularly of the either/or variety where either response is acceptable. The questions can be lite, such as:
- Do you prefer cake or pie?
Or heavier:
- Is consistency or surprises make life more interesting?
There are infinite possibilities out there.
- Would you rather drive a subaru or a volkswagon?
- Mittens or gloves?
- ABC or NBC television?