Mike and Ken -
I know your first reaction will be to disregard this advice, but for your own long-term health and well-being, please consider putting the anger aside. Is it really worth it?
Ken, your anger is becoming obsessive and self-destructive. Is Mike really worth that? Invest your energy into your son. Stop watching porn and marry your girlfriend. Be a role model for your son.
Mike, you cheated and got outed. Either come clean and get a fresh start, or just slink away like Kip. What you did was wrong, but not that big a deal in the big scheme of things. Move on. Be a true family man like you process to be -- it really is more rewarding than seeking attention for yourself.
Ask yourselves if this feud is worth it. Please.