Runner Mom wrote:
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http://fanbuzz.com/story/a-father-got-a-note-from-a-principal-for-taking-his-kids-on-vacation-and-totally-schooled-her-with-his-response/
You have to admit that the letter he and his wife received from the principal was very condescending.
It really wasn't. Point out a SINGLE sentence that is condescending and I'll explain why it wasn't. Mike just couldn't stand that his super, great, awesome accomplishment was going to cause his kids to have 3 days absence from school.
Here is MY reply to this article to help clarify why you may be misguided:
What Mike Rossi did was instead of handling this like an adult and contacting the principal directly, or contacting other parents who may feel the same way, he decided he was going to take his fight with the school policy to the internet and change it single-handedly. He didn't send the "letter", but what he did was so much worse.
First comes the flippant way he addressed it to the princial that he later claims to repect. "Dear Madame Principal" - Is that the proper way to address a letter to somebody you respect? The letter he got was addressed professionally to them as parents.
The letter from the principal DOES NOT in any way say that the trip was not beneficial for the children. I'm sure it was wonderful. The letter simply states that the school is not in a position to judge the educational value of their trip and that they would be marked absent just like any other student would be. Unless the children had some kind of truancy problem and were in danger of failing a grade the letter should have just gone directly into the trash. But Mike couldn't stand that his children couldn't get special treatment. So he replied.
He goes on to claim his children learned more in 5 days than they would a whole year at school. This is a slap in the face to the whole school and education system. By that logic the Rossi children could take a 60 day vacation wherever their parents wanted and then pass the SAT test with flying colors and get into an Ivy League school. Obviously Mike is dilusional to think what he wrote.
His chlidren did not have a once in a lifetime experience. Boston is still there. It will be there for quite a long time and the Rossi family can go back whenever they feel like it. Its only a two hour flight.
Then he rambles on about things they did learn, which by my estimation they could have learned in Philadelphia as well. Philly has a a lot of history as well. They can also learn many of these things by donating their times to local charities or organizations.
Then they watched their father overcome in injury. Shouldn't the lesson be not to run a marathon when you are injured? Maybe let your injury heal firt before you do something stupid and hurt yourself for life? That would be my takeaway. Let's see, then Mike overcomes bad weather. How exactly did he do that? By running in it. And I'm prety sure all the runners had bad weather that day.
Then we find out that their grandmother died the very day they left for Boston. So the lesson here is when a loved one dies you don't sacrifice your vacation so you can mourn and console your family, who may be greiving - you just press on with your vacation. Awesome lesson.
And then he lists all the things they did. Which they could have done during their summer vacation where they have 80 days off from school.
But then comes the real horror of this story. Because he posted it to Facebook and it went viral and the principal did get to see it. And people started to harass her and made threats against her. Knowing this was happening and the principal's life was being destroyed Mike continued to take calls from reporters. More stories were written with even mor elaborate headlines. But Mike kept answering the phone.
And then he even took to news stations - ABC, CBS, FOX and ven The Today Show. All while the principal was being harassed and being put in the spotlight for simply doing her job.
What Mike Rossi did was nothing short of cyber-bullying.
And being an employee of the state the principal was powerless to fight back.
Mike went on to post to his facebook and Twitter accounts every single article and video about him. He loved the 14 minutes of fame because he thought this reponse somehow made him a wonderful father and husband. He stood up to a system that was broken.
But then his 15th minute of fame showed up and we all found ot that he cheated to get into th Boston Marathon. That's right. The whole basis for his cyber-bullying attack on this public servant was based on a lie. He never earned the right to be on that starting line in Boston.
So now what did our "father of the year" actually teach his children? Well, we have yet to discover that. And we probably won't ever know. Only his children can answer that and eventually they will Google their father's name and learn the truth about their special trip to Boston.
I can't imagine they will have much respect for dad when it all comes to light.