So, my sister is getting re-married this summer (May). Her boyfriend proposed to her over the holidays after 11 months of dating and while I like the guy, I'm a little worried about my sister's decision to do this.
Her ex-husband was a decent guy but they fought all the time. He got fed up and left and disappeared. My sister has had a history of being difficult to deal with ever since she was a teenager, so part of me is not all that surprised that her first marriage didn't work out. She's also had depression her entire life.
After her divorce was finalized, she began seeing her future husband about a week later. I didn't agree with this but I kept my mouth shut.
She seems happy, but I don't think she has had any time to recover from her first divorce and she's rushing into another quick engagement/marriage. Her first husband proposed to her after 9 months of dating which was too quick. Her second wedding will also be expensive, and our dad is paying for it (again) and is budgeting about $10K. I'm also flying in with my family and it's going to cost us a lot $$$ to get there.
I love my sister dearly, but as a brother I'm concerned about her going through another divorce again and hitting rock bottom. I want to talk to her about this but I don't want to build resentment before her (second) big day. I'm in a tough place.
Maybe Letsrun isn't the best place for this, but I'm looking for advice and have gotten good advice here in the past.