So there is a girl in my class who obviously likes me, I should like her to shes got everything im looking for really- smart, in good shape, attractive, laid back but there is just no chemistry and I can't put my finger on why. There are some girls that im attracted to but they don't know I exist so, wtf is going on?
There's no chase. She likes you so the challenge isn't there. This is more powerful in girls but guys deal with it too.
You do realize there are going to be many, many women in life that are smart and attractive that you won't go for, right? You don't turn of mating age and instantly try to bang every girl you meet.
It's called maturity. Be glad you have some.
Kgpremed12 wrote:
So there is a girl in my class who obviously likes me, I should like her to shes got everything im looking for really- smart, in good shape, attractive, laid back but there is just no chemistry and I can't put my finger on why. There are some girls that im attracted to but they don't know I exist so, wtf is going on?
You're not really attracted to her physically, or there is something about her personality you subconsciously don't like.
Or as the feminist would say you're intimidated by a beautiful educated woman.
OR, you're gay.
Dude, if she really is smart, in good shape, attractive, and laid back, go for it and be grateful. Women who are all of those things are practically unicorns. I have recently met a woman in her late 20s who is like this. I don't really feel a spark with her, but I'm trying hard to woo her because of how rare she is and how much of a problem I've had finding women like her. All my girlfriends (and I've had a number of them) have either been a) dim, b) lacking exercise, or c) a pain in the arse. Looks fade anyway. You're young, so you might not be looking for a true life partner at the moment, but for me, if I can find a girl who I get along with well who enjoys a lot of the same stuff I do and is intelligent, that's a keeper, whether or not I feel any sixth sense connection with her.
I don't have any chemistry with any of the hookers I pick up, and that's never stopped me thus far.
Kgpremed12 wrote:
So there is a girl in my class who obviously likes me, I should like her to shes got everything im looking for really- smart, in good shape, attractive, laid back but there is just no chemistry and I can't put my finger on why. There are some girls that im attracted to but they don't know I exist so, wtf is going on?
Don't shit where you eat.
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