Can a 26 year old date a mature/independent 19 year old?

I am 38 my wife is 25. We have been together since she was 19 and continue to laugh and will forever about all the morons hating on our initial relationship together. We are happier than almost everyone we know and every day is a gift. You never know when and who is going to come into your life that is the right person for you.

blossoms wrote:

The guy is the older one, here.

I did this and no, she wasn't despite how much I tried to convince myself she was. If I was you, I'd enter the situation without any expectations. It's a nice ass for now.

26/2=13+7=20

Nope.

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Slay it day and night

As someone who is also 26, I can't imagine how big of a pain in the ass it would be to date someone who couldn't get into bars.

#s R #s

Ho Hum wrote:

As someone who is also 26, I can't imagine how big of a pain in the ass it would be to date someone who couldn't get into bars.

Good point. So you just get drunk at home and fvck.

No, I masturbate to Katy Perry videos.

I am 26 and can't even stand most of the college girls I meet who are 20-22. 19 would not be possible for me, and honestly, I wouldn't even want to screw one because of all the BS I'd likely have to put up to get to that point and especially all the BS I'd have to put up with/avoid afterwards. It's just not worth it to me. I met a very mature 19 year old when I was 23 and established a good friendship with her, but it was apparent after a while that we were still pretty far apart due to age difference. No matter how mature someone that age acts, they lack the time and experiences needed to have the same perspectives and thought-processes as people who are older.

Ya, my personal beers in my personal fridge are 48 cents per 12oz. at a bar the same beer is 4.00 plus tips.

im an azzhole wrote:

Ho Hum wrote:

As someone who is also 26, I can't imagine how big of a pain in the ass it would be to date someone who couldn't get into bars.

Good point. So you just get drunk at home and fvck.

You started dating when you were 32 and she was 19. Glad it is working out for you and you are happy. No BS. You are the exception.

99 times out of 100, this would not be a good scenario.

Thanks. Most of the hate revolved around us being second cousins, but who's to say that love has limits. We're happy and two of our kids are healthy.

asdfd wrote:

I am 38 my wife is 25. We have been together since she was 19 and continue to laugh and will forever about all the morons hating on our initial relationship together. We are happier than almost everyone we know and every day is a gift. You never know when and who is going to come into your life that is the right person for you.

In other words, you graduated from high school when she graduated from kindergarten.

I had a similar situation a few years back. Same age difference but I was 24 and she was 17 (in my state 17 is the age of consent). It was never anything serious though. I used to buy her and her friends beer and go to some small parties and we'd hook up. Then I'd wake up the next morning equally ashamed and thrilled at the same time. I was a virgin before meeting this girl. Anyway, I knew it wouldn't last and when she went off to college we ended it. Now I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years with someone I met on match.com. We have much more in common and I think this is a healthier situation for me.

maybe not sure wrote:

I had a similar situation a few years back. Same age difference but I was 24 and she was 17 (in my state 17 is the age of consent). It was never anything serious though. I used to buy her and her friends beer and go to some small parties and we'd hook up. Then I'd wake up the next morning equally ashamed and thrilled at the same time. I was a virgin before meeting this girl. Anyway, I knew it wouldn't last and when she went off to college we ended it. Now I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years with someone I met on match.com. We have much more in common and I think this is a healthier situation for me.

LOL a 24 yr old partying with teenagers.

Yes. Tear that $hit up!!!

If you are 26 and think that any 19 year old is mature and independent then you in fact are not truly nature and independent.

asdfd wrote:

I am 38 my wife is 25. We have been together since she was 19 and continue to laugh and will forever about all the morons hating on our initial relationship together. We are happier than almost everyone we know and every day is a gift. You never know when and who is going to come into your life that is the right person for you.

This is encouraging.

I'm 26 and do well for myself, she's 19 about to finish nursing school (running start in HS and extremely motivated). She will probably go the nurse practitioner route. It was rough at first, but the people we care about don't give two shits about the age difference because we're actually, genuinely fun.

Fvck the haters. Make sure you stick to the norms, guys. Plug those ages into the calculator like it's a magic ball. DERRRR.

You are not going to marry every girl you date just have some fun and see where it goes

You will also run into immature co-dependant 40 year olds so age is no guarantee of anything.

People are rarely on the same page no matter how close they are in age.

Just the differences in gender are an insurmountable gulf.