Wabash is a great school. The All-Male aspect is misleading- as many of the current students will atest to. females flock to the campus for parties and what not. You will be ok. As for the team, Coach Busch is a great guy, smart, and will get the best out of you if you give him the chance. The team is a good group of guys.
My advice, take a visit. Meet the current team, talk to the coach, and see the campus/ student life. This goes for whatever college you are looking at. Dont take the advice of some letsrun forum speakers make a decision like this for you.
Good luck.