My ex girlfriend used to get mad at me if I ever tried to share something about a book I was reading or had just read. She thought I was sharing it to make her feel dumb, rather than just sharing something interesting that we could both enjoy. The same thing has happened with a few other people recently, and it really catches me off guard each time it happens as the whole idea of mentioning something interesting simply to feel superior seems absurd to me. Luckily I have quite a few friends who enjoy these sorts of conversations, but I have shot myself in the foot a few times at social events by sharing something that I thought was interesting, but the other person viewed as simply a display of my arrogance and ego or something.
Anyone else experienced this?