I assume you (and your friend) both late entered?
Because the entry fee is $45 through June 2 - after that there is a $50 late fee per event.
I could sort of understand someone entering without meeting the guidelines if you were entering before June 2. It is a pretty punitive late fee, and if you had a meet lined up where you thought you would make the standard, you might take the risk that you are wasting your money in order to cut your entry fee by more than half in the event you do get in. NOTE THE PHRASE "TAKE THE RISK" - it is an explicit gamble on your future performance.
But why on Earth would you late enter without meeting the entry guidelines? And why would your friend late enter in two events? Unless you are in a position where $95 just doesn't matter to you, and/or you value the miniscule chance of getting to run more than $95. (I once did this for the USATF 10k when I missed the standard by four seconds. And by "I" I actually mean the money was not coming out of my pocket. I did not get in; the school didn't get their money back.)
But this is what it says on the meet webpage (all caps and bold in the original):
ENTRY FEES ARE NON-REFUNDABLE.
THERE IS NO REFUND FOR ENTRIES RECEIVED NOT MEETING ENTRY GUIDELINES.
PLEASE MAKE SURE THAT ATHLETES MEET THE ENTRY GUIDELINES BEFORE THE ENTRY FEES HAVE BEEN PAID.
IF ACCEPTED INTO THE MEET (MEANING THE ENTRY GUIDELINES HAVE BEEN MET), THERE IS NO NOTIFICATION OF ACCEPTANCE. IF REJECTED, A REJECTION NOTICE WILL BE SENT. IN SUCH CASE, ENTRY FEES ARE NOT REFUNDABLE.
It says three times in four paragraphs that entry fees are not refundable, and says in three different ways that if you enter without meeting the entry guidelines you won't get your money back. You can disagree with that policy, but you can't possibly say it is unclear. I don't think there is any chance a credit card company is going to give your money back.