What is considered sexually deviant in our present culture?

Concerning yourself with the sex practices of other mutually consenting adults is perverted and therefore deviant to the non-perverse population.

What if he likes to watch or the mutually consenting adults like to be watched?

Every breath you take wrote:

What if he likes to watch or the mutually consenting adults like to be watched?

Good point.

I would say that if likes to watch mutually consenting adults who do NOT consent to his watching then he is perverted and hence deviant...

If he likes to watch mutually consenting adults who also consent to being watched then this is all between mutually consenting adults and hence none of anyone else' business (and hence non-deviant...).

anything involved pre-pubescent children.

next stupid thread.

I'm in my mid-'60's. By "category" what I consider acceptable:

1) BETWEEN CONSENTING ADULTS: (any form of sex, any number of participants): anything and everything that doesn't hurt (in the broadest, most inclusive sense) any of the participants.

2) BEASTIALITY: Never done any nor have any desire; but I have seen some porn and it doesn't strike me as doing any harm either to the person or the animal. Just this past week, I was told by a person from Colombia, that young men there use donkeys as a matter of course (what with the Catholic Church making young women as anti-sex as possible). This strikes me as a better alternative than either serious, long-term frustration, or frustration-driven aggressiveness towards others (especially unwilling partners). Overall, I still don't have a strong opinion either way.

3) CHILDREN (UNDER 16-18 YEARS OF AGE): I don't get my morals from some book ("holy" or otherwise). I try to think things through comparing harm vs good. I know that kids of all ages, on their own initiative, touch themselves, some masturbate. I see nothing wrong with that; how could there be if it is so evidently natural?

On the other hand, kids having sex with others seems to me to be harmful/dangerous to the kids. Why? Simply because sex tends to be so delicious, that it can easily be over-powering. Kids don't have the capacity to reason things out; and will tend to go "heads over heels" and get addicted to the sex and to that particular person.

Due to the innate inequality of the situation, NO adult needs or has the right to have sex with a kid.

Kids don't need this; and it seems to me destructive because it interferes with the process of their learning naturally, in due course as they grow up, what is right and wrong generally, and for each one of them in particular.

Thus, imo, it's just always wrong for kids to be involved in sex with others.

Last thought: in the distant past (and not so distant past in poor, impoverished countries), children frequently married other children. Once married you'd assume they'd engage in sex with each other. When/where humans only live(d) some 30 years, teenage sex is/was a pre-requisite for the continuation of the species. Under those specific conditions it had to have been a necessary and thus a good thing. (Given that there's pretty much no societies nowadays that have such a short life-span; this type of situation no longer applies).

discombobulated wrote:

orientals

oh my god how old are you, 70

that's like saying "colored"

Unfortunately, nothing.

Well, I suppose, that's not true. Engaging with a corpse is still pretty messed up.

Anything but missionary sex.

discombobulated wrote:

We live in a perplexed era.

Exhibitionism is still something of a traditional taboo even though careers in paparazzi are made on accidental captures of celebs in skimpy plaid. Homosexuality and America have come to terms compared to yestergay. Meanwhile anything from parades of orientals riding mechanical sex bikes to dirty central american zoophilia is available at your fingertips (No pun).

I don't know what is considered deviant anymore. What do you think? Lots of topics to discuss.

xenonscreams wrote:

discombobulated wrote:

orientals

oh my god how old are you, 70

that's like saying "colored"

Orient is more than asian. I meant the whole eastern hemisphere.

I like watching people shit on each other.

In our culture, anything involving sex is considered deviant.

There's a reason why you don't call up your parents and talk about last night's sex. There's a reason you get nauseous when you catch your parents. There's a reason you get angry when you think of your former lover, lovin someone else. There's a reason children are taught to close their eyes in nude/sex scenes in movies. There's a reason a lot of internet content is "not safe for work."

We're sexual prudes (socially), even though we ALL want as much as we can get. We consider it a deviant act, even when its conducted purely from a place of love and passion.

short shorts

fat chicks

Anything not shown on Game of Thrones is considered deviant.

Short fat chicks on bicycles eating gravy covered chicken.