Im 21, and have been hanging out (individually) more frequently with one of my long friends/teammates.
I have wanted to officially ask her out for about 6 months, but was trying to get a sense of how she felt first.
Just this weekend she puts a picture of the two of us as her profile picture, and then a different one as her cover picture. Is this my green light?
Your green light is doing what you want.
ASK. HER. OUT period.
definitely DON'T ask her out on her period.
Umm, yeah. This is a bright, blazing green light yelling at you and waving pom poms.
Friendzoned, congrats.
I've been there, man. Have learned from it. The situation you describe is definitely not a guarantee that she likes you in that way. Obviously, she likes you in SOME way, but as we've learned, there are multiple ways for a girl to like a guy. It could also be, to a large extent, that she just likes the way she looks in that particular picture.
All that being said, if you want to ask her out, just do so. Confidence kills.
Dear OP,
continue being a scrawny, scared, whimpy, white distance runner.
signed,
lmfao
clown hair wrote:
Dear OP,
continue being a scrawny, scared, whimpy, white distance runner.
signed,
lmfao
LOL!
SocialMediaconnection wrote:
I have wanted to officially ask her out for about 6 months, but was trying to get a sense of how she felt first.
Dude, if you can't get enough balls up to ask her out in six months then it doesn't matter what color that light is.
She would be way too scared to do that with a guy she was lovesick for.
SocialMediaconnection wrote:
Im 21, and have been hanging out (individually) more frequently with one of my long friends/teammates.
I have wanted to officially ask her out for about 6 months, but was trying to get a sense of how she felt first.
Just this weekend she puts a picture of the two of us as her profile picture, and then a different one as her cover picture. Is this my green light?
Post a link to the Facebook page or else we call this out as a troll job!
Hey, get a job wrote:
Friendzoned, congrats.
OP,
Please read this. This explains it perfectly:
http://www.laddertheory.com/You need to immediately ask her out so you can figure out whether you are wasting your time.
laddertheory.com is one of the all-time greatest websites. Men have one ladder and rank women 0 to 10 on it.
Women have two ladders. One is the friendship ladder and one is "The real ladder." You are instantly put on one or the other. In theory, those high on the friendship ladder could jump to the other real hook-up ladder, but the fall is unsuccessful is incredibly painful. Also there are no confirmed cases that it's ever been done before.
Good luck.
Okay thanks for the advice.
Question: I would NEVER put a picture of a girl and I as our profile picture unless I was interested in her. Its not worth the speculation otherwise. Is this a difference between men and women, or just me?
And its not that I havent been "confident enough" to ask her out over the last 6 months, I've just wanted to be patient and wait to see if she's interested. Sometimes we hangout all day just us, doesnt that mean something to women??
SocialMediaconnection wrote:
Sometimes we hangout all day just us, doesnt that mean something to women??
She thinks you're unmanly.
Explain the connection??
SocialMediaconnection wrote:
And its not that I havent been "confident enough" to ask her out over the last 6 months, I've just wanted to be patient and wait to see if she's interested. Sometimes we hangout all day just us, doesnt that mean something to women??
Bullshit
She was just using that as a way to make me jealous. It worked. We did the deed last night. I'm feeling pretty good today and am going to crush you in the workout today. Suck it!
-top runner on your team
OP stop wasting your time here when you should be banging this chick.
p.s link to pics please
And if you don't mind, please take a day from time to time to talk with her about her problems. Frankly I can't stand her endless cackling, but she's a good fvck so I'll keep her for a while.