It would be very easy to outspend 60k. You could probably have a 200k mortgage, which would get you a modest townhouse in my area with a 20% down payment, plus a modest car to go with it. With property taxes and insurances those two will consume more than 3k per month. Add in utilities, maintenance and gas, and you're looking at another 1.2k. If you avoid restaurants, you could do groceries for .4k. Misc stuff (yard maintenance, furnishings) is good for .5k. Just the above sums to 5.1k or 61k of after tax money. No savings. No vacations. No big bar bills. No extravagant gifts...
If you married a woman with similar earnings, you would be at about the minimum level for being able to enjoy some finer things and still save. Although I've seen plenty of couples with 6 figure incomes who went into debt because if frivolous spending.
As us evident from lottery winners, no matter how much you have, if you run your finances like a child, you will end up broke.