I suppose it's nice to forgive or find something redeeming about a coach who built up a college program.
Being old school, here is the bottom line. If you are a professional coach, you need to act like one. If you decide that playing around with your athletes is ok, I don't think you are very professional. You not only give yourself a bad name (which more and more people don't seem to care about), but you give the profession a bad name.
Our culture seems to now be saying, "Hey, we aren't perfect, so lets move on". I am sure that kind of reasoning or rationalising does not give one the license to behave in a careless, selfish and inconsiderate manner.
Hadsell not only hurt himself, but he hurt a University program and he hurt the student athletes that were under his supervision.
To me, that is unacceptable. I don't need to hear or know anything else.