Sorry to drop into your topic, I thought I add some more shocking numbers to your lists.
I pity with the OP for making only 250000$ a year.
I live in europe, at the time of writing a € is worth 1.3 dollar
So yeah.. I got the cheapest place possible which is quite unrealistic, and that in the center of Berlin (capital of Germany). A lot of action is going on here, it does not look like New York but it one of Europe's places to be.
Rent: €100 (so normal people spend 300 - 500€, if you move together & get kids you can get great places here from on 700€+)
Monthly costs (food & toothpaste): €150.
Insurances: €20 (is actually more expensive but because I earn little I get 70€ deduction)
290€ per month = 380$
THATS IT.
I have an amazing life. I travel a lot (hitchhiking) all trough Europe, I got enough money to build on my bike, buy musical instruments, etc.
Furniture I build/find myself, tools I borrow from friends. My most valuable item is my laptop.
I expect to keep on living like this for another 5 years at least. That is a total then of 18000 - 20000€ which I need for this lifestyle. I have got most of that already in the bank, in case of emergency I could drop all my work and still survive a couple of years.
Back when I was traveling around spain and doing volunteer work in exchange for food and a bed I spend about 200€ in half a year time.
Now I understand that this lifestyle does not appeal to everyone and does not work in every place. I will move on too, get kids, get a fixed place and save up for studies and retirements. However, this lifestyle is 100% satisfying, I am not missing out on anything.
I can not imagine spending much more than half a million € on myself in a life time.
You have to only work for this 2 years. Of course you share this with your wife and 3 kids, but get real. You are f*cking rich. Which is fine. But because the value I add to the world is can not be expressed with money (though its just as important) and likely the value you add to the world is mostly money, I don't think its unfair that you give away an extra big cut of money to the community. (And I will promise I will give away an extra big cut of art, muisc, inspiration and love so you don't have and the world will still be in balance!)