I've had as little to do with my brother as possible over the last 7 years. He steals, he does drugs, he threatens violence, he never shuts up and babbles on about nonsense because his brain is fried, and I wouldn't consider him to be mentally stable. He refuses help of any kind and always has, so there's nothing anyone in our family can really do for him. I want nothing to do with him. However, my mom still helps him and gives him a place to stay when he gets kicked out of his apartments etc.
Anyway, here's the deal. I'm going back to HOMETOWN for Thanksgiving, which is about 4 hours north of here. My brother somehow ended up PLACETOWN about 90 minutes SOUTH of here, has not car, no money, no friends, and has a court date in our hometown next Monday. He called my sister to tell her to ask me to drive down to PLACETOWN, then take him with me to HOMETOWN. This would extend my travel time by about 4 hours, and it would be the most time I've spent with him in years, though I have had to be around him multiple times over this period. He's just as much of a mess as ever and is one of the most annoying persons on the planet (think a schizophrenic with ADHD), and I'm honestly not 100% sure traveling with him would even be safe. I know my mom would be super pissed at me if I didn't go get him though, because it would mean she would have to go get him.
What are your thoughts on the issue?