WARNING TO THE OP: I like your handle, YMCMB, the handle of lil wayne drake and his team. Anyway I would stay away from going into a field like finance just because you think that because you get money you're going to get women. You're gonna need top grades from a top school just to get one of these imaginary jobs in ibanking where you MIGHT get an opportunity to make 150k (60k starting and bonuses).
Most people in finance I know are NOT making much more than 60k/yr starting salary out of bachelors degree. They might make six figures in some years but that's a big if for some. If you're not genuinely interested in the field you're studying, you're going to be so miserable on the job you'll get weeded out quickly in what is a cutthroat environment plus you'll be so miserable from the long hours you'll have no time for girls.
It sounds like you need to take more time to reassess your goals and approach in life. The most important thing is to just be yourself.