I've been dating 3 women at the same time and I'm starting to feel bad about it

This sounds like the best problem ever.

Dude....it's better to burn out, then to fade away. Just keep grinding and grinding...you're right, eventually this whole house of cards is going to come crashing down, but until then, ride that wave with a smile on your face....seriously....for all the married guys out there....you need to do this.

Are you sure you aren't confusing 3 different women with 3 different porn sites? I mean, this is Letsrun.

#3, she has domestic instincts which will be better for the both of you in the long run

Well 3 is a a lot man I would say cut it down to 2 simply because its to much work. If it were me the one who wants to clean your house sounds really annoying but that just me. If you really feel bad change the situation but really you cant feel that bad or you wouldn't be in the situation. At any rate bro no one will be served by you falling on your sword so don't tell any of them. Good luck.

My friend continue doing what you're doing and ENJOY IT! I would suggest to ask every over 60 yr old man what he would do...that should give you an idea. Life is short.

Well maybe I should provide a little more background information.

#1 the college girl: I met her at a house party. To be honest we only go out and party when we hang out then back to my house. I've been seeing her mostly on Friday or Saturday but she wants to text all the time and I hate it. She also smokes so I pretend like I smoke when I'm around which is not so smart. She is hot.

#2 the graphic designer: She's really independent and into a lot of cool things that I don't really understand. I guess she is a female hipster. I hang out with her a lot of times and she always insists that I can't pay outright (she forces every bill be split) so this is financially a thumbs up. She keeps me doing crazy things. For example, last weekend we rode around downtown on a piece of garbage moped that kept dying in traffic. It was really fun though. Weird stuff like that. I'd say she is hot in a rockstar kinda way. I can't see myself settling down with a girl like this though.

#3 the momma's girl: I take her on formal dates and other times we just hang out and cook. She has no idea that I drink or anything about the crazier side of me. She keeps doing really sweet things though that make me feel horrible. Stuff like folding my laundry and leaving love notes halfway in the pile and surprising me outside my door with coffee on the way to work.

Actually, I'm sorta new to all this. I wouldn't consider myself good looking ... probably like a 6 or 7. I don't really have "game" either. But, basically after I got my heart broke I spent months alone and pitiful. Then one day I decided to just start throwing myself out there. I asked out #2 and #3 just out on the street. #3 was sitting with her friends at Starbucks and I just walked up to the group of 4 and asked her on a date. And, I've really just stopped caring. I guess I've just been being my real self and somehow it works.

It doesn't make any sense.

try sleeping with all 3 in the same day without getting caught before you break up with them. if it fails at least you went out on a high note

You've ruined all 3 relationships. Now, live the dream, see what you can pull off and when it fails start a real relationship.

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This sounds like the best problem ever.

What he said.

And you're how old?

My summer was like this. Except I was only seeing 2 girls at the same time. I had a couple close calls, but overall it was great! The highlight was got a bj from #1 in the afternoon, then sex with #2 at night. Then I moved to Europe for a semester abroad, problem solved!

If you really like one then break up with the other 2. If not, have at it

Been down this road. Basically, just stuck with the one that gave the best b******s. No regrets

Wow, I find dating one woman to be expensive. How are you keeping all the details straight in conversation. Like when one talks about her brother in Idaho.

Anyways I feel this is a troll, but if not I say dump #1 & #2.

#1 probably has another boyfriend on the side.

#2 probably is bi sexual, so won't take the break up hard.

I've found from experience if you break up with the #3 type you will face hell. These types can turn psycho in a heart beat. Fear for your life.

I know a troll when I read one.

His first post was solid, but he slipped hard when he said: he's got no game, he's a 6 or 7, yet he's banging 3 girls at the same time, all because he "stopped caring." Not caring isn't that easy, it's been hardwired into us to care what our peers think about us.

By stopped caring, he means he stopped caring what they looked like. The chicks are probably 3-4's. Note the first one is a smoking partying college chick (read somewhat fat), the second is a tatoo'ed up hipster (probably somewhat dike looking), and the third sounds insecure, probably because she is fat.

Easily possible.

Have you told any of them that you are seeing them exclusively? No, so no problem. Keep seeing all three and if you decide you want to go exclusive later then break it off with the other two. Remember you deserve to have three girlfriends. I mean it isn't her business what you do with other girls while she isn't there as long as you aren't lying to her. By the way, number 2 sounds like tons of fun, I'd definitely keep her around. Keep it going buddy.

The answer is a question:

Which one has the biggest boobs?

I know how it feels man. My c*** is too big and I've got way too much money in the bank. Fotunately my pro surfing career is on the ups and I really like my new house in Maui. But maybe I should cash it in for a beachfront in The Seychelles, you know, for something different....1/10