The problem that I have is that it's hard for me to be open about what I want in a partner. Tough to walk up to a guy at a bar and ask if he's a power bottom. On CL, you can find people who are into the same kinds of stuff as you pretty easily.
I used to go out with friends, sometimes we'd meet girls, sometimes I'd call them, sometimes I'd date them, one time I married one!
I still meet girls without even trying (as I said, I'm married).
Now, I will tell you that I asked a woman friend of mine why women seem to come on to me even when they know I'm married and, in most cases, much older than they are. Her answer was, "Look around, you're a lot better looking than most other men." Keep running and working on your abs my friend, the women will come to you!
There are some really desperate dudes hanging out in this forum. I'm horrified that any HS coach would recommend this site to their young, impressionable athletes. The Brojos are a disgrace.
cl luver wrote:
I've hooked up with some guys when I needed some additional release. I'm not gay, but some guys give better BJs than girls, and most seem to love swallowing. No kissing, cuddling or anal sex, and tons of horny guys. Only downside is most don't want to give a covered BJ, so you take a risk with herpes.
remove the "CL" and insert "Letsrun"
For the most part, though, CL has turned into a spam-laden cesspool of BS... There are still occasional gems but it's nothing like it was 3 or 4 years ago when the real ads outnumbered the fakes.