Fanatic Woman Runnin' Wild

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How in the world did you last a year with her without noticing she had problems??

LMFAO

Romeo wrote:

I did an admiral job

"admirable", not "admiral".

As far as the woman goes, Talk to everyone you know. Let them know what's going on. Then buckle down and wait it out.

"How in the world did you last a year with her without noticing she had problems??"

Admittedly, I was well aware of her issues before the relationship began. She pursued me very aggressively in the beginning, and I got involved somewhat unwittingly. Although I never really intended for the relationship to progress to more than a year or so, her 'episodes' were initially few and far between, so things were fairly smooth at the outset. As the months went by she began to become much more needy and less emotionally stable, and I knew thing would have to be dealt with before long.

In any case, here we are. Could deportation be a feasible solution?

Restraining order.

Post pics so we know who to stay away from. My love of Asian women could get me in trouble.

Make a sex tape. In the sex tape, you need to 'superman that hoe.' Then say, "I'm done with this."

Post it all over the internet.

O.K., I'll recant my previous, and possibly too judgemental remark.

I dated (if you could call it that) a guy in college for about a year who turned out to be a scary nutcase. In my defense, he lived on the other side of the country for most of that year, and when he started to show his instability I ended it.

This was before email, social networking or even personal cell phones were available. I presume in today's dating world that these sorts of issues become evident sooner than later.

gota stop datin psycho bitches man

get a OOP!....you know...below

Order of Protection

All women with superiority complexes that I've had the displeasure of knowing have been psycho bitches.

The problem is that they're not stupid, which makes them scarier...they twist the facts to make the man seem like the bad guy. They're used to using "man"ipulation to get their way and when the man denies them, it gets ugly. To the OP, you've wisely diagnosed this woman and tried to distance yourself.

I know of someone who had a similar situation and the woman makes origami out of the actual facts.

Get a restraining order.

Quest-ce que cest wrote:

I know of someone who had a similar situation and the woman makes origami out of the actual facts.

In this day and age, with the technology available for lie detection, there should be no question about the actual facts.

If you believe someone is lying, making up stories about you, etc., publicly ask them to take a polygraph on the issues. If they refuse, they're obviously lying. It's that simple. Puts an end to all of this he said, she said crap pretty quickly.

The polygraph reads a physiological reaction. If someone is pathological, there's a good chance a psycho bitch wouldn't blink or have a change in blood pressure when lying.

Robert Culpability wrote:

http://www.justicedenied.org/thetruthaboutpolygraph.htm

The polygraph reads a physiological reaction. If someone is pathological, there's a good chance a psycho bitch wouldn't blink or have a change in blood pressure when lying.

Possibly, but in my experience the psycho bitch refused to take the test when confronted with her lies. Enough said.

I would try to explain things to her in a realistic way. Ignoring someone only allows them to feed their delusions.

I humbly consider myself to be a fairly laid back and logical guy. I have spent a great number of hours gently reasoning with her in a clear manner. There is simply no reasoning with this girl. Her thought process is non-linear. She is always coming back around in the same circles or coming up with irrelevant premises on which she tries to convince me to take her back.

It is not that she does anything extremely overt to make me look bad. I work with the international program, so I have a lot of Chinese friends. What really bothers me is that she makes it look to these people as though I am jerking her around and making her suffer, while I am clearly trying to just give her space and make things as undramatic as possible. I have never insulted her or harmed her. Sure, I could hold a press conference and defend my image by explaining what really happened, but when I start explaining to people I feel like I am being a drama queen by calling on all of these messed up stories. In addition to this, Chinese culture seems to value face saving, and ever if she is revealed as the villain, I think I will feel the ill effects of outing her for it.

I don't know about a restraining order. I live in Canada. Does one need to supply evidence or go to court to put a restraining order in place. Also, there is a possibility that she would 'off' herself if I did this (though frankly, she doesn't have the balls).

You don't think she might follow you to Canada? It's not so far - according to another thread, vegetables are easier to import to Canada from China than the US, so you might not be safe there. Have you talked to her parents? Perhaps the in the Chinese culture, the parents have more power to control her and will be motivated to have her "save face" so she doesn't bring ignominy to the family.

I thought about speaking with her parents, but I was told that this was a cultural no-no (again, face saving). Also, they do not speak English, though I guess I could get a friend to translate.

I am currently in Canada, but I am planning on going to Japan when I finish my Bachelor of Education next year. I might tell her I am going somewhere else though ...

Tell her you're going to North Korea. If you're lucky she'll "follow" you there. Problem solved!