If this is a genuine post, your situation is similar to what mine was, except my HS coach tried to destroy me and the only two seasons I ran well under him were the ones he loosened the reigns and let me have a little say in what I was doing, so I had no desire to ever go back to him. I went to a major D1 school who's program is considered one of the best in the country. However, I found out very quickly the coach intentionally deceived me just to get me to go there and then didn't give a rat's ass about me once I WAS there. He used the "eggs against the wall" method and after 9 months of being chronically exhausted and harrassed for my poor fitness, I felt enough was enough. Running there was so miserable I couldn't chance experiencing anything like it again, so I transferred to a school but never joined the team. I've been running on my own since.
Let me tell you, I am somewhat bitter and disappointed with myself and how my running has turned out. Guys I was running alongside in high school are now some of the best in the country, some have even made USA teams. I haven't done shit. The thing is, when I left college running, I went through a strange period where I didn't really know what to do with myself. I had a few lingering injuries for 3 months after college running, and every time I started to get in shape, I would hurt something else. I kind of learned how to live life without running and then lost the deep passion to run I once had. I've recently gotten some of it back after 1.5 years and have put in as many as 85mpw, but running now isn't the same as it used to be. In some ways it's much better, but I miss the comaraderie and the free health-care and gear (very important as I don't have much money and am injury prone). I hope to get back into shape and possibly make the Olympic trials in 2012, but that's kind of just a fantasy right now. If I had it to do over again, I obviously would have gone to a different school, but beyond that, I wish that when I had transferred I had just switched programs rather than abandoning college running programs altogether. My experiences with my HS and college coaches just left me very untrusting, and I couldn't chance being in that situation again.
My advice to you would be to look at other schools who recruited you in HS, or even some DII schools. They can't really talk to you unless you get released by your coach, and if you wait long they won't have any money to give you, so the sooner you get organized and make your decision the better. I mention DII and smaller schools because being a big fish in a small pond usually means the coach will listen to you a lot more and be more willing to accomodate your needs.