If this sounds familiar, it should. I've posted my troubles on here before. Anyway, here's the deal: my brother is 5 years older than me. He's been a pain in the ass my entire life (to everyone, not just me), but he started getting into drugs and alcohol when he was 15. By 19, he was on meth, possibly other hard drugs but meth for sure. My parents enabled his drug addiction by basically just letting him do drugs in our basement and garage for almost my entire HS career. Despite threatening to kill me me on several occasions my parents did nothing. He's now 26, I'm 21, and after 9 months in jail he's out and guess where he's staying? My parents' house. He's back on meth too (only took him about a week out of jail to get back on it). Normally I'd just mind my own business and not go "home" for thanksgiving, but I've watched this whole thing play out over the last 10 years (my whole life really) and see it's a bad deal for everyone. None of my relatives will come over because of him, my siblings and I won't come home, my parents have conflict between them because of him, and all he ever does is do drugs. Beyond that, I think he's getting more dangerous and I feel like eventually he's going to snap and kill one or both of my parents. I feel like since they won't ever do anything about it, maybe I should. He's been to jail probably 10 times, this last time he went rehab during his 9 months, but the truth is he doesn't want to change, he just did it so he could be released early (he was supposed to be in jail for 12 months). He's a lost cause and he's pretty much destroyed our family. Many of my good friends are coming home for thanksgiving, so I can stay with a few of them, but feel like I can't deal with this anymore. I either have to get him locked up or pretty much disown my parents. ...My parents would probably be pretty pissed at me for getting him arrested, but I just don't know what else to do.
Would I be justified? Should I just forget about them entirely?
And no, I'm not trolling.