nrr: leaving earlier than my gf for vacation - is this a d*** move?

Can't answer the question w/out pics.

Instead of an extra week over there, enjoy a few days off before and after the trip. Chill at home. I say total d-bag move to go vacation separately first.

I don't think it's a problem or a d-bag move. maybe take a few days and do something closer to home though so you can fly to morocco with her.

Unless she has expressed great fears of flying and would benefit from holding your hand during the flight, she's a big girl and can fly on her own. Perhaps since you'll be there for a week before her, you can scout out some great restaurants or locations to take her. Or if you still feel some guilt about it, be there with something special for her arrival.

wondering about ethics wrote:

she insists this is absolutely fine and i should go surf or hike for a week before she arrives. i thought it over and it seemed ok in theory, but something about letting my girlfriend fly to africa alone seems kind of wrong, even though id pick her up at the airport as soon as she arrives.

any thoughts?

believe her

don't go early. that's dumb

Are you sure you want to go to morocco? Lots of extremism, kidnappings etc. Be careful

deadbetty friedan wrote:

believe her

+1

Women have been travelling without need of an escort for some time now.