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Short shorts and a ferrari
Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 7:00AM Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
As usual, I turn to my letsrun brethren to answer questions of the world. I suspect that my fiancé is cheating on me. Is there a legal way to get a printout of her text messages over the last month or see her myspace emails? Thanks in advance. I assure you that this is NOT a trolling attempt.
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 7:03AM - in reply to Short shorts and a ferrari Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Okay, how about asking her?

Tell her you are not marrying her, b/c it is stupid to get married to someone you do not trust 100%.

Please do not add to the statistics against marriage.
Short shorts and a ferrari
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 7:09AM - in reply to AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Man, I completely agree. I just need to know for sure.
Precious Roy
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 7:21AM - in reply to Short shorts and a ferrari Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
What you are really asking is whether you can get the information without your fiancee knowing about it. The answer is no. Unless you pay for the cell phone, you can't get it. The email (and cell) would require a subpoena issued in a civil matter. Even if you could do this, your fiancee would have to receive notice of the lawsuit and subpoena.

If you are really going nuts, hire a private dectective to follow her around. If she is cheating, a PI will find out.
Mr. Obvious
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 7:28AM - in reply to Short shorts and a ferrari Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
You have already been given very good advice. You do not need to know for sure. You need to move on and put this one in the rear view mirror.

If you do hire a PI, and he gets pics of her cheating, please post them here.
Short shorts and a ferrari
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 7:38AM - in reply to Mr. Obvious Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Ok, that last one made me laugh.
Rocafella
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 7:42AM - in reply to Short shorts and a ferrari Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Picture would help us tell you if she's cheating. It's simple; if the majority hear thinks she's hot, then it's obvious she's cheating.

If you want to get on her myspace try guessing her password. a lot of people use the same one for everything. or try changing it by guessing the answer to her secret question(s). Those are ofter easy enough for a fiance to know the answer to.
Short shorts and a ferrari
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 7:52AM - in reply to Rocafella Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I have tried all of that. Are there programs that can be run to crack passwords?
whoot
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 8:45AM - in reply to Short shorts and a ferrari Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
What is her name? I will hack in for you.
anonymouse
RE: Legal way to catch a cheater 11/3/2009 9:03AM - in reply to whoot Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I know how you can do it:

Option 1: Install a keylogger on your computer so if she ever logs in to myspace or her email you will know her password

Option 2: If you sleep together, you can go through her text messages on her phone if you get up in the middle of the night and leave the room.

Option 3: If she has any saved-form information on any computer (yours or hers) you can very quickly go (in Firefox):
Tools-Options-Security-Saved Passwords-Show passwords

Let us know what happens.

A word of caution... do not get hooked on "spying" on her. If you find out she's not cheating, delete all that stuff and forget her passwords. Otherwise you'll feel compulsed to constantly assure yourself since you don't trust her.

But please tell us, why are you suspicious?
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