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Steven Riser
Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 5:29AM Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and she is without a doubt the most intelligent, kind, and witty woman I’ve ever met. However, she possess a trait that I’ve noticed in numerous other women: whenever she gets tired or hungry, her brain completely shuts down. It’s like the power of sleepiness and hunger grabs a hold of her mind and turns her into a moody savage. I adjusted to this pretty quickly, but sometimes I just want to say, “we’re in the middle of doing something, can’t you just grab a Power Bar to hold you off until dinner!”

Are all women like this?
Flagpole
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 5:43AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

Steven Riser wrote:

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and she is without a doubt the most intelligent, kind, and witty woman I’ve ever met. However, she possess a trait that I’ve noticed in numerous other women: whenever she gets tired or hungry, her brain completely shuts down. It’s like the power of sleepiness and hunger grabs a hold of her mind and turns her into a moody savage. I adjusted to this pretty quickly, but sometimes I just want to say, “we’re in the middle of doing something, can’t you just grab a Power Bar to hold you off until dinner!”

Are all women like this?


Most AMERICANS are like this, regardless of gender. She is a slave to her hunger and she will be a fat one eventually (she might hit rock bottom and turn things around, but she WILL be fat one day). Just so you know.
excacerbator
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 5:55AM - in reply to Flagpole Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Gotta agree w/FP on this one. Unless/until she discovers healthy protein/fat and vegetables, life will be the "starchy carb rollercoaster".
ponytayne
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 6:14AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
The two above posters are likely correct. I used to be that way, and my wife did, too. But my wife's was far worse than mine. We were worried about diabetes in her. Turns out, she has a reactive hypoglycemia. That is, when she takes in some starchy or sugary food that raises blood sugar and causes an insulin spike, her body responds so well to the insulin that it causes her blood sugar to drop as low as into the 40s. That's extremely low. Her insulin levels were not out of whack according to medical norms, her body just responds rapidly and robustly to the signal. She has a blood glucose monitor now and uses it when she feels she needs to. But, most importantly, she's learned how to control it herself through proper diet, and a more even intake of calories (particularly coarbohydrates and protein, both of which cause insulin spikes) throughout the day.
If you have access to a blood glucose monitor, then have her check blood sugars when she feels awful. Have her check before and after meals. Have her check about an hour and two hours after meals. Blood glucose should stay between 80-120, preferably 80-100. All the time. Monitors can be bought at CVS or Walgreens.
Steven Riser
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 6:22AM - in reply to ponytayne Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

ponytayne wrote:

The two above posters are likely correct. I used to be that way, and my wife did, too. But my wife's was far worse than mine. We were worried about diabetes in her. Turns out, she has a reactive hypoglycemia. That is, when she takes in some starchy or sugary food that raises blood sugar and causes an insulin spike, her body responds so well to the insulin that it causes her blood sugar to drop as low as into the 40s. That's extremely low. Her insulin levels were not out of whack according to medical norms, her body just responds rapidly and robustly to the signal. She has a blood glucose monitor now and uses it when she feels she needs to. But, most importantly, she's learned how to control it herself through proper diet, and a more even intake of calories (particularly coarbohydrates and protein, both of which cause insulin spikes) throughout the day.
If you have access to a blood glucose monitor, then have her check blood sugars when she feels awful. Have her check before and after meals. Have her check about an hour and two hours after meals. Blood glucose should stay between 80-120, preferably 80-100. All the time. Monitors can be bought at CVS or Walgreens.



Thanks for the reply. Would that also account for why she gets so tired so quickly at the end of the day and needs to sleep NOW?
xgfzdfdzfdf
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 6:41AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

Steven Riser wrote:
Would that also account for why she gets so tired so quickly at the end of the day and needs to sleep NOW?



No that's because you keep trying to poke her with your rocket...she DOESN'T WANT TO F*** YOU.
ponytayne
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 6:45AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
If she's been running on empty, so to speak, for a few hours after crashing from lunch or some sugary snack, this could lead to her need for sleep. I have also found that people who are not in very good shape experience this much more often than people who are in good shape, regardless of being overweight. It is also possible that she's just being a baby. Not to seem mean or anything, but my brother's wife was like that for many years when younger. I am assuming you are a bit younger, college aged maybe. When kids came along, the need for sleep increased, yet suddenly those spontaneous naps were gone and she was just fine. If you are college age, it is likely you two stay up late at night. So, getting enough sleep at night will help with that, too.
Steven Riser
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 6:53AM - in reply to ponytayne Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

ponytayne wrote:

If she's been running on empty, so to speak, for a few hours after crashing from lunch or some sugary snack, this could lead to her need for sleep. I have also found that people who are not in very good shape experience this much more often than people who are in good shape, regardless of being overweight. It is also possible that she's just being a baby. Not to seem mean or anything, but my brother's wife was like that for many years when younger. I am assuming you are a bit younger, college aged maybe. When kids came along, the need for sleep increased, yet suddenly those spontaneous naps were gone and she was just fine. If you are college age, it is likely you two stay up late at night. So, getting enough sleep at night will help with that, too.



We're not exactly young...both 30. And she's in great shape...just ran a 3:45 marathon. Very active and beautiful. Is she being a baby? Possibly. She just doesn't act like that during runs or in other situations when she could be so cranky, though...just when she's sleepy or hungry.
LI Runner
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 6:53AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
My wife turns into a dragon lady when she is overly tired. Although we dated for about 5 years before we married, I didn't learn of this until our honeymoon! We took a red-eye to Europe, and after being awake for probably 28 hours (with only 2-3 hours of sleep), she totally lost it. The she-hulk reverted back to my wonderful wife after a 5 hour nap.

Since then, she warns me when she is getting into that danger zone.


Steven Riser wrote:

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and she is without a doubt the most intelligent, kind, and witty woman I’ve ever met. However, she possess a trait that I’ve noticed in numerous other women: whenever she gets tired or hungry, her brain completely shuts down. It’s like the power of sleepiness and hunger grabs a hold of her mind and turns her into a moody savage. I adjusted to this pretty quickly, but sometimes I just want to say, “we’re in the middle of doing something, can’t you just grab a Power Bar to hold you off until dinner!”

Are all women like this?
ponytayne
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 6:57AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
In all seriousness, have her get a blood glucose monitor and check her blood sugar before, 30 min after, 1hr after, and 2 hr after meals. And when she's feeling the overwhelming need for sleep, check it. It is possible that she's getting low. There's more information than you can ever want to read about how to eat if she is experiencing low blood sugar.
fisky
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 7:02AM - in reply to ponytayne Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

ponytayne wrote:

The two above posters are likely correct. I used to be that way, and my wife did, too. But my wife's was far worse than mine. We were worried about diabetes in her. Turns out, she has a reactive hypoglycemia. That is, when she takes in some starchy or sugary food that raises blood sugar and causes an insulin spike, her body responds so well to the insulin that it causes her blood sugar to drop as low as into the 40s. That's extremely low. Her insulin levels were not out of whack according to medical norms, her body just responds rapidly and robustly to the signal. She has a blood glucose monitor now and uses it when she feels she needs to. But, most importantly, she's learned how to control it herself through proper diet, and a more even intake of calories (particularly coarbohydrates and protein, both of which cause insulin spikes) throughout the day.
If you have access to a blood glucose monitor, then have her check blood sugars when she feels awful. Have her check before and after meals. Have her check about an hour and two hours after meals. Blood glucose should stay between 80-120, preferably 80-100. All the time. Monitors can be bought at CVS or Walgreens.


I agree. I've had hypoglycemia all my life. It can cause extreme sleepiness, moodiness, lethargy, anger, rapid mood swings, and extreme mental confusion.

Hypoglycemics have even more problems when they try to diet, which most women are attempting to do because they go for many hours without food.

If the problem is hypoglycemia, it's not just low blood sugar, it's the rapid decline in blood sugar even though the monitor might still show blood sugar to be in the "normal" range.

The solution is eat often, avoid foods that cause a rapid increase in blood sugar, and exercise. I typically eat five times a day or more. Obviously, these aren't large meals. I also completely avoid sugary snacks unless I'm eating a normal meal in less than an hour. Otherwise, my blood sugar spikes and then crashes.

Just before this crash occurs, I get a light-headed feeling. Your girlfriend should learn to recognize this and eat something healthy immediately. I carry energy bars and peanuts with me everywhere I go. Plus, I carry glucose tabs... pure sugar... in case I crash badly. These will hold me over for 1/2 hour or so until I can get real food.
4runner
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 7:09AM - in reply to ponytayne Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Be doubly cautious if/when she gets preggers.

My wife was always cranky when hungry. When she was pregnant with our third (in her late 30's), she developed pregnancy-related diabetes. It can apparently be slightly dangerous for the kid if the woman just tries to ignore it...
Denver Runner
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 7:27AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

Thanks for the reply. Would that also account for why she gets so tired so quickly at the end of the day and needs to sleep NOW?


Actually, I get like this too. I'll go from awake and friendly and alert to if-you-don't-let-me-sleep-now-I'll-punch-you in about ten minutes. The is especially true when training.

I've always attributed it to sleep deprivation. I usually get right at 6 hours a night, which probably isn't enough to support the 75-85 mpw I'm doing during peak training blocks. But what are you going to do? Kids and jobs and training and just an hour or two of adult time is hard to balance without sacrificing something.
FagpoIe
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 7:41AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

Steven Riser wrote:

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and she is without a doubt the most intelligent, kind, and witty woman I’ve ever met. However, she possess a trait that I’ve noticed in numerous other women: whenever she gets tired or hungry, her brain completely shuts down. It’s like the power of sleepiness and hunger grabs a hold of her mind and turns her into a moody savage. I adjusted to this pretty quickly, but sometimes I just want to say, “we’re in the middle of doing something, can’t you just grab a Power Bar to hold you off until dinner!”

Are all women like this?




This is all explained in a book on the psycho-biological differences between the sexes, called "How To Improve Your Marriage, Without Talking About It."

I've met the author, smart, funny guy.

Get it, read it, make notes on index cards, LEARN the information, make your relationships with the opposite sex BETTER, and AVOID a whole host of shitty pitfalls between the sexes.

Oh, by the way, it is hormonal when she acts that way.

When your woman says she is hungry...do not ask her if she can make it another 40 minutes drive.

--Stop and get the potential banshee or out of control emotional child something to eat.

Also, get her a copy of the book too, and she'll understand what is going on with her.
FagpoIe
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 7:44AM - in reply to Flagpole Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

Flagpole wrote:

Most AMERICANS are like this, regardless of gender. She is a slave to her hunger and she will be a fat one eventually (she might hit rock bottom and turn things around, but she WILL be fat one day). Just so you know.



WRONG. Read my previous post.

Geez, you are such a freaking blowhard, I understand why so many people here think you are a douche these days.

Not only is your answer wrong, it is completely insensitive to the OP's situation.

Just because you think it, doesn't make it fact.

Go read the book I referenced, the science of it is footnoted within the book.
Steven Riser
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 9:05AM - in reply to FagpoIe Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

FagpoIe wrote:

[quote]Steven Riser wrote:

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and she is without a doubt the most intelligent, kind, and witty woman I’ve ever met. However, she possess a trait that I’ve noticed in numerous other women: whenever she gets tired or hungry, her brain completely shuts down. It’s like the power of sleepiness and hunger grabs a hold of her mind and turns her into a moody savage. I adjusted to this pretty quickly, but sometimes I just want to say, “we’re in the middle of doing something, can’t you just grab a Power Bar to hold you off until dinner!”

Are all women like this?




This is all explained in a book on the psycho-biological differences between the sexes, called "How To Improve Your Marriage, Without Talking About It."

I've met the author, smart, funny guy.

Get it, read it, make notes on index cards, LEARN the information, make your relationships with the opposite sex BETTER, and AVOID a whole host of shitty pitfalls between the sexes.

Oh, by the way, it is hormonal when she acts that way.

When your woman says she is hungry...do not ask her if she can make it another 40 minutes drive.

--Stop and get the potential banshee or out of control emotional child something to eat.

Also, get her a copy of the book too, and she'll understand what is going on with her.[/quote]


Thanks for the advice. Reviews on Amazon are overwhelmingly positive. Unlike most guys, I'm a strong communicator...always have been. Would the book still be helpful in dealing with my situation, or is it just going to tell me to do stuff I already do?
hoser
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 9:10AM - in reply to FagpoIe Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
This guy knows what's up. I've been married a while...women are just moody. They freak and let their emotions take over. It's nature.

And really, who's to say reason has more of a claim on truth than intuition/feeling? I think women often let the emotions ruke a) because they experience them more vividly and b) because they realize how important they are. Men tend to compartmentalize almost as a safety precaution...i.e. They're afraid of them ;)

My wife turns she bitch with a clockwork regularity! She has a fantastic diet, is super fit, but bleeds from her crotch every month and it tends to make her hate me.
26mi235
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 9:15AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
My first grader is like this. adults have an element of this but not nearly so much. Some older people become a bit more like this.
good times
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 9:56AM - in reply to Steven Riser Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
As Chris Rock once said, "Whatever happened to "crazy"?" I'm constantly surrounded by people who are sleep deprived, overworked, work through lunch, and are frazzled, but they still keep it together and don't turn nuts.

You need to kick her to the curb....once their inner-crazy is out in the open, you can never cram it back into the container. You're finished.
Zombarney
RE: Does your girlfriend/wife completely lose her mind when she's tired or hungry? 11/3/2009 10:58AM - in reply to good times Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Ah, HFCSS

High Fructose Corn Syrup Syndrome.

HFCS inhibits leptin production = never reach satiety

HFCS is a toxin.

I AM ASHAMED OF MY PARENTS FOR FEEDING ME SUGARY, PROCESSED FOOD AND DEVOIDING ME OF REAL NUTRITION.

MY KIDS WILL RECEIVE A BALANCED DIED FOCUSED AROUND ORGANIC GREENS, LEAN PROTENS, HEALTHY FATS AND WHOLE GRAINS.

DEATH TO HFCS and the IMC.
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