If your SO/partner cheats, do you walk right then and there? Or do you forgive and give them a second chance? What about if they cheat again?
Can someone cheat once and once only or once a cheater, always a cheater?
If your SO/partner cheats, do you walk right then and there? Or do you forgive and give them a second chance? What about if they cheat again?
Can someone cheat once and once only or once a cheater, always a cheater?
I'd say stick around another round. She will cheat on you again, but whatever.
Soap clearly cheated when he set the course record on the combat course.
12 and out. It's bad luck to keep a 13-timer around.
RE: Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?
I thought this was a salazar/slaney/ritz thread for sure!
I've cheated on my wife 3 times, and we've been married 17 years. It's been 6 years since my last affair, so I don't consider myself still a cheater.
first... awesome name...
whats the saying... "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me, fool me three times and i'll get my gun."?
something like that anyways
WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!!!
nice name call of duty.
If they admit without getting caught give them a second chance.
If you catch them then they should be dumped.
That's how I view it anyway.
15 years after she first cheated on me as my girlfriend, she cheated on me as my wife of 12 years. I knew it immediately because she was terrible at lying and deep in denial.
In between those two incidents we had 2 kids and were happily married in my opinion, but the 2nd affair put us in a nasty point of no return, where I walked away, and only then did she immediately want to reconcile. Absolutely crazy, but after all those years I think her problems were the same.
If I had not been married, and if I were you, I would drop her in a super kind and forgiving way but show her zero tolerance. Sort of like "I'm so sorry I have to do this...". Go do your own thing for a while, date others if you want, stay in touch if you want but do not date her, the separation has got to be significant.
Eventually, if you two still feel the same way, and you think she gets the point, you can reconcile, but I would seriously recommend counseling for her/both.
The point is that if you take her back right away, her lesson is "it's no big deal, he will take me back.". She acted like a child. Even with this response there is no guarantee she won't cheat again, depends on her real problems and therapy.
If you love her, take her back. Let her know that you love her. If not, drop her. Everyone deserves a second chance.
If you take her back, make sure you butt boink her and only butt boink. No other stuff ... just butt boinking.
Mrs. Featherbottom wrote:
In between those two incidents we had 2 kids and were happily married in my opinion, but the 2nd affair put us in a nasty point of no return, where I walked away, and only then did she immediately want to reconcile. Absolutely crazy, but after all those years I think her problems were the same..
Questions:
* wait, so you did eventually reconcile or not? What's going on now in your lives?
* "her problems" were what in the end? That she was a slut?? (ok, hold on, mostly kidding there, but seriously, what was at the root of her infidelity issues?)
Soap, you really have to be more specific. There's a huge difference between a one night stand and a cheating relationship that goes on for months. A fling is much less serious!
what if you cheat and don't tell her? I don't really think a one night stand should be a huge deal for young people
I clicked on this thread expecting a discussion about Alberto Salazar!