Should I profess my love and admiration to a girl I know?

Go for it, that way we can talk you into breaking up with her using Powerpoint in about 6 months.

Yawn. 0/10.

I'm guessing if she's the best looking girl you're encountered in all your years, your pointing out that she's foxy might not come as a shock to her. It's entirely possible she's heard it before.

Just a thought.

not really so serious wrote:

I'm guessing if she's the best looking girl you're encountered in all your years, your pointing out that she's foxy might not come as a shock to her. It's entirely possible she's heard it before.

Just a thought.

I thought about that, but two of my friends think she's just okay, and her boyfriend isn't exactly a stud.

Step 1: Cut a hole in a box

You have to do this - for so many reasons, mainly though, so you can come back and tell us how it went.

Well, at least someone's nailing her. You do know this, right?

I thought she was beautiful and my friends said she was just OK...even after I showed them her SI Swimsuit cover.

...eye of the beholder.

Step 2:...

Terrible idea.

Let me list the following reasons why this is a bad idea:

(A) Be realistic about her reaction. Most likely, she will be very uncomfortable, you will be nervous and awkward, she will tell you "sorry I have a boyfriend" to get off the hook, and she will laugh to her friends about in a few hours.

(B) She has a boyfriend. Not only is it unethical to do this, but her boyfriend will not be happy (most won't do anything, but there are some jealous/crazy nuts out there that could beat you up), most other guys will lose respect for you, and most other girls will see you are a guy that does not respect a good relationship and they will be less likely to go for you later.

(C) If she is beautiful, every other guy on planet earth also thinks she is beautiful (what makes you think you're special for thinking she is physically attractive) and she also knows that she is beautiful. Meaningless flattery gets you nowhere with women that have self-esteem; well-timed praise could have some meaning.

(D) Shes gone in a few short months. Even if it goes over well, she will most likely realize that it would be useless for her to uproot her current boyfriend to spend 4 lovely months with you.

Grow up junior, life ain't a romantic comedy film.

Women like her always want what they think they can't have.

You will not win in any way. Go hire the finest fox in the city. Have her come to your class and meet you after class in full view of this other chick. Big act. Your trying to dump this other chick, let this one see this stuff. Works on white girls all the time. Take it from a brother.

So there is this girl who goes to the YMCA that I go to. She usually does the elliptical and weights. The other day she was squatting reps of 95 lb. The next time I see her, I will profess my love and admiration to her.

sum old sprint dude wrote:

So there is this girl who goes to the YMCA that I go to. She usually does the elliptical and weights. The other day she was squatting reps of 95 lb. The next time I see her, I will profess my love and admiration to her.

No dude. Go to local supermarket and buy a 10" pepperoni.

Lash that thing to your thigh and cover it a bit with a tight workout pant. When she squats you stroll up in front of her. Remember women want what they think they can't have. :}

if your post is serious, ill be serious too. You aren't going to get her. I know that it seems like if you go up to her and say "hey ____ listen, I think you are one of the smartest and most attractive girls ive ever met", she'll kindly thank you and tell you that she just wants to be friends with you. That WILL happen. Instead of focusing on this girl and wishing she was yours, try to foster new relationships with women. the more women you get to know the better you will become with them. If you work on bettering yourself (by which i mean mentally) you will become immensely attrative. Girls are attracted to men who have a strong frame (mindset, interior thought process).

And example of a strong frame would be El G, on the track he knows he cannot be beaten. The track illicits a mindset in him that he is unbeatable. You need to figure out how to have that sort of winning mentality and you will become immensely attractive.

go to your local mall, and talk to as many girls as you can in one day. pretty soon you wont be apprehensive about opening them

then, start working on having good eye contact in your interactions

then start working on opening well, having good eye contact, and making them laugh by telling funny stories.

then work on being both funny and a little cocky (a little cocky is good, too much is bad), by telling funny jokes at their exspense a little bit.

and as you get better and better at interacting with women you'll soon find they open you, and want to be around you, b/c you are magnetic, funny, confident, positive, and have a high value.

if you want to talk a bit further, AIM me, my sn is: emceelaszlo

Wow, dude. That post was possibly *too* supportive. You gotta give the guy some lashes for seeking "serious" romantic advice here.

Seriously serious... seriously wrote:

Of course she has a boyfriend... She's a senior and I'm a junior, and I'm wondering if I should let her how beautiful I think she is before she graduates and leaves forever.

Is she dating the team captain, number one, fastest senior on the track team? If so, you might also mention that she might need to watch out for those freshman track girls; that said, if you do, prepare for a fight against a god amongst men--and he will catch you, as he's the team captain, number one, fastest senior on the track team.

you did it wrong.

senior, captain, #1 runner.

lol. seriously, why would you tell her how beautiful she is? you said you're not in love with her.

it's probably best if you just say you've had a really good time hanging out with her

Treat 'em like dirt, they stick to you like mud.