Man, things are slowing down for me already. We've been dating for a little over a year and while it was frequent for a while, it has been pretty much cut off since about December. The problem is that she moved a long way away to stay with me (I took a new job), but she hasn't really been able to fit in here. She wants to get married, but I'm not sure because she's not happy, which means she's not much fun to be around. It seems like we can't even have one day where she doesn't throw a pity party and talk about how much she misses her job, friends, and where she used to live (all things she said she was happy to give up at the time). I didn't ask her to move with me, that was a decision that she made. However, any time we have an argument, she loves to tell me about how she gave up everything
Am I crazy to be hesitant to be with someone who makes me uneasy? It's to the point where when she's in a bad mood I get in trouble for making jokes and generally being happy. She demands that I spend all of my free time with her, and as a result I have very few friends in my new city. Another big downside is that because I spend all my free time with her, I don't even have time to jerk off!
Is there any way that I can end things without looking like the biggest jerk in the world? It's not that she's a bad person, but I'm just not sure I can make this work. It's not all about the shutoff, but that certainly doesn't help.