BTW you lets run dudes are nothing but a bunch of babies. You do not ASK your wife for sex. You expect it, be a leader, and make it happen. The guy above who hasn't had sex for 16 weeks are you fkiiiin kidding me? You should be ashamed that you even have a penis attached to you. Your wife has needs. Fulfill them. See the whole thing as her challenging your manhood in the first place and yep, she's right, you are a woosie. Women demand leadership in the household and if she is in charge then guess what? She can't get turned on or aroused. Tell her you will f%&*! her best friend if she ain't interested. And make sure you do if she calls your bluff.