Where do you find these women? I've been married over 5 years, have two kids and we're still doing it 4 to 5 times per week.
Where do you find these women? I've been married over 5 years, have two kids and we're still doing it 4 to 5 times per week.
2010 is off to a great start. I'm 2 for 94.
Regarding this comment made by 'grain trader': I kept track when I was first married. I put a penny in a bank for each time.
Here's the deal with keeping track with pennies.....if you put a penny in the jar for every time the first year, take one out each time the second year, one in the 3rd year, one out the 4th year etc etc they say you'll never empty the jar.
What does that tell you? It shouts "POST NUPTIAL SHUTOFF"
Interesting this thread reappeared just days after my (female) best friend revealed to me that her husband's sex drive is nonexistant. They haven't had sex in, get this, 6 years! She is considering divorcing him because he refuses to admit there is any problem. He won't see a therapist or a doctor. I tried to be objective and rational in offering advice, but acknowledged that situation would be intolerable from my (female) point of view. I probably wouldn't believe post-nuptial shut off was a real problem before my friend's revelation.
Are you a male? If so I think it is pretty clear what she is trying to tell you.
No- I am female.
well, there was a world famous merriage in Germany during a running event with some red balloons at the end, read more:
What "miracle food" reduces sex drive 500%? Wedding cake.
Marriage isn't necessary for PNSO; living together accomplishes the same thing, albeit typically more gradually. After a year or two, you find you are living with your "best friend". Who the hell wants to %@$# their best friend? Get a Golden Retriever instead.
Now at 2 for 115
Holy smokes, did NONE of you save sex for marriage?? It's no wonder you aren't getting any with your now incompatible significant other, you got married/engaged on pretty much no basis other than that the "sex felt good" at the time.. GO FIGURE!! Save it for marriage like I did, 11 years and still going strong. Of course, every marriage has their dry times, but I've never been (overly) upset by it. Stick with marrying someone you can live with WITHOUT having sex with them, and you're in for a ride, quite literally, after the ceremony.
Witness The Fitness wrote:
What "miracle food" reduces sex drive 500%? Wedding cake.
Marriage isn't necessary for PNSO; living together accomplishes the same thing, albeit typically more gradually. After a year or two, you find you are living with your "best friend". Who the hell wants to %@$# their best friend? Get a Golden Retriever instead.
You want to %@$# a Golden Retriever? You sick bastard!
wed for 20 years wrote:
Whats a BJ
If done correctly with a passion, it can be the most wonderful feeling in the whole world.
Wow. All this from listening to some people at work during lunch time.
my situation exactly. but seriously, what is the solution? once kids are involved the situation changes completely. it doesnt make sense to ruin multiple lives for the sake of one on the basis of a single (although important) issue. I feel like its just an impossible situation - no doubt i love my wife, frankly i think she is hot as hell but i guess the feeling is not mutual
I did and continue to do all of these things, in short I've always set the bar low, and in many ways "lead" this marriage, but she has the puss...ooops purse strings to the good stuff and the post nuptial tsunami took me down too...I'm 12 yrs into marriage and have had sex twice in about 6 or 7 weeks, and both were brief encounters completely dictated by her.
Half-way through the year, how is everybody doing?
PNSO is no longer a problem for me, I love being divorced.
5/180, not getting any tonight so might as well say 5/181.
ya..... wrote:
Holy smokes, did NONE of you save sex for marriage?? It's no wonder you aren't getting any with your now incompatible significant other, you got married/engaged on pretty much no basis other than that the "sex felt good" at the time.. GO FIGURE!! Save it for marriage like I did, 11 years and still going strong. Of course, every marriage has their dry times, but I've never been (overly) upset by it. Stick with marrying someone you can live with WITHOUT having sex with them, and you're in for a ride, quite literally, after the ceremony.
Your theory is flawed. Two of my friends who waited for marriage have wives with zero sex drive. They're the only couples I know of with post-nuptual shutoff. Ever think that a lot of people who wait until marriage can do so because they have low sex drives?
ya..... wrote:
Holy smokes, did NONE of you save sex for marriage?? It's no wonder you aren't getting any with your now incompatible significant other, you got married/engaged on pretty much no basis other than that the "sex felt good" at the time.. GO FIGURE!! Save it for marriage like I did, 11 years and still going strong. Of course, every marriage has their dry times, but I've never been (overly) upset by it. Stick with marrying someone you can live with WITHOUT having sex with them, and you're in for a ride, quite literally, after the ceremony.
IMO, you have to know if you and your partner match sexually before going into marriage.
Wife: 0/180
25 Year Old GF: 86/180
RIP: D3 All-American Frank Csorba - who ran 13:56 in March - dead
RENATO can you talk about the preparation of Emile Cairess 2:06
Running for Bowerman Track Club used to be cool now its embarrassing
Hats off to my dad. He just ran a 1:42 Half Marathon and turns 75 in 2 months!
Great interview with Steve Cram - says Jakob has no chance of WRs this year
Rest in Peace Adrian Lehmann - 2:11 Swiss marathoner. Dies of heart attack.