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Cesar
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 1:47PM - in reply to Dr. Cuckold Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I don't think you have anything to worry about unless one of those old boyfriends is a sleazy asshole that will try to take advantage of her while she is struggling with her marriage.
coldstreakinfebruary
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 2:19PM - in reply to Cesar Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
3/42, 0/11 in February
Dr. Cuckold
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 3:01PM - in reply to not so bitter divorced guy Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Thanks for the support. My wife has always seemed to enjoy the financial security and social legitimacy my profession brings to our marriage. Is it possible that is the reason she married me and is now looking for an exit strategy from our marriage?
Tiptoe Through The Tulips
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 3:55PM - in reply to Dr. Cuckold Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Dr. Cuckold wrote:

My wife and I have not had sex in nearly four months. We had a fight and she has cut me off since then. She has always made me feel like she was doing me a favor whenever we had sex in the past. I have tried to initiate intimacy but she is cold, angry, mean and bitter.

As far as I know she has never had an affair. I work long hours and am often away overnight. She does keep in contact with a few old boyfriends. She is leaving for a business trip this weekend on the other side of the country. Do I have anything to worry about?



Four months without sex and now she is heading off on a business trip? Old boyfriend or random guy, your wife will be good to go.
Worm
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 4:36PM - in reply to Tiptoe Through The Tulips Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Cuckhold Tiptoer, you sound like a pathetic, boring old troll who isn't getting a Valentine this year.
safe???
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 5:04PM - in reply to Cesar Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
lol I gave my bitty a supaman then she shut me right off lol
not so bitter divorced guy
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 5:31PM - in reply to Dr. Cuckold Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Dr. Cuckold wrote:

Thanks for the support. My wife has always seemed to enjoy the financial security and social legitimacy my profession brings to our marriage. Is it possible that is the reason she married me and is now looking for an exit strategy from our marriage?


Wake up. Who cars what she is looking for. Why are you putting up with a bitter, angry woman who has no interest in being married to you?
Skeptical 21y/o single guy
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 6:51PM - in reply to Cesar Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I don't have a girlfriend.

When I want to go make out with someone or have desires I don't really have much trouble meeting people or anything.

After reading this thread I am honestly scared to get married. My parents divorce probably didn't help this fear.
Dr. Cuckold
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/12/2009 11:12PM - in reply to not so bitter divorced guy Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
not so bitter divorced guy wrote:

Wake up. Who cars what she is looking for. Why are you putting up with a bitter, angry woman who has no interest in being married to you?



I'm just not ready to give up on her. Maybe I am just being paranoid. How will I know for sure?
feb14update
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 1:03PM - in reply to Dr. Cuckold Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I'm not even married but I love this thread (and scared for the future). I loved the 0/20, 3/20 connotation 20 days into the month.

So we didn't have the annual Valentines update. How did it go boys (and girls)?

Also by my count we're 53 days into the year. Update the statistics.
Fat Boy
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 1:16PM - in reply to feb14update Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I never had sex within the bonds of matrimony. Shutoff was immediate. I'm thankfully divorced now.
need data
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 1:57PM - in reply to not so bitter divorced guy Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
This thread has been a boon to so many people. I am very pleased and glad to have helped anyone and everyone by starting it.
nada
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 3:46PM - in reply to need data Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Last year 1/365. still batting at 0 for this year. I've only been married 5 years with 2 kids. Might be time to shop elsewhere
Jim Jupiter
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 4:20PM - in reply to nada Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
MIGHT be?
nada
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 4:54PM - in reply to Jim Jupiter Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I'm optimistic..... and dont really want to throw it all away just for a shag. Outside of this my wife is great, I put up with far less than most of my mates... But my optimissim is running out.
look at me
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 5:41PM - in reply to nada Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
well.. my wife today told me. "You're on the once a week plan. And as long as its once a week, thats enough"
Well.. according to her the week ends on Sunday..
So guess what fellas?

Im feeling lucky ;)
look at me
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 5:43PM - in reply to look at me Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Im currently 6 for 53(if thats what day we are on) tonight should be 7
werwer
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 6:20PM - in reply to Fat Boy Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Hey Fat Boy, how long did the marriage last?
Max Decatur
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/22/2009 7:02PM - in reply to nada Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
nada wrote:

Last year 1/365. still batting at 0 for this year. I've only been married 5 years with 2 kids. Might be time to shop elsewhere



Jan 18/31 Feb 13/21
look at me
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff? 2/23/2009 7:50PM - in reply to look at me Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
look at me wrote:

Im currently 6 for 53(if thats what day we are on) tonight should be 7


keep me at 6. I spoke too soon.
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